Amanda - posted on 01/04/2010 ( 16 moms have responded )
okay so i have two kids with my ex. i kicked him out when i was pregnant because he cheated on me, he had a bad temper, when he got angery he scared me, he was immature and couldn't hold a job. we've been broken up for a year now, he moved back across country. he hasn't been out to see his kids once. he's never seen his daughter. he doesn't pay child support, doesn't work. but what really annoys me is his mood swings and dissapering acts! he'll go a few months being good, calling once every couple weeks to check up, being civial, ect. then out of nowhere he's cursing and insulting me yelling, saying he hates me, telling me i have no right to know where he is or know anything about his life, which im sorry.. i think i have the right to know where he is at least. if he wants to be in their life. sometimes a week later he'll call and apologise, sometimes every time he calls he'll be this way.. regardless of his mood during our last conversations he also pulled dissapearing acts constantly. he'll just suddenly be gone. no calls, no emails, nothing. I'm really ticked atm because he was suppose to call on x-mas eve and he didn't, i haven't talked to him in almost 2 months. the last time i talked to him our son was having more probems with his epilepsy to , so the fact he hasn't called to check up on him... he was suppose to be sending me money last month and didn't. i don't want him to keep messing around like this! our son is almost 2 now and will soon be able to understand the concept of daddy visiting, or daddy calling. why should he be aloud to just come in and out of their lifes as he pleases? what did he do to deserve that right? contribute some sprem? I'm not sure if i should try and cut contact with him or work to keep him in or kids lifes. i don't want them to get hurt because daddy keeps ignoring them for months every few months. what do i do?!