Roxanne - posted on 11/04/2010 ( 26 moms have responded )
Well basically, since falling pregnant to my daughter's father, he and I have had nothing really to do with one another as he really is not a nice guy.
He was very rude and harassing me to abort when I found out I was pregnant and had been being a massive asshole prior to me falling pregnant. He would threaten me and threaten our baby and make accusations that she was not his etc. He had also been starting to get into things that just weren't things you want a child being raised around. I ended up making it so he had no contact with me whatsoever as I was very worried what he may do as he had become very erratic and he had been being violent with others and because he had treated me so badly. After the birth of my daughter I saw a Centerlink social worker who I explained what he had done/was doing and I got an indefinite child support exemption and he is not on her birth certificate.
Despite telling people the reasons why he has no contact, I get some that say he still should, its his right etc, but in them saying this, they are basically saying its alright for him to come into our lives, after he treated me so badly and may even potentially harm my daughter. There is a lot more to the story than above, but its not something I really want to get into detail about, and I'm just so sick of people thinking they can harass me about something they don't really know about.
So does anyone have any advice on something like this, cause pretty much at the moment all I tell them to do is piss off