Nicole - posted on 02/23/2010 ( 37 moms have responded )
Me and my daughter's father broke up when i was 4 months pregnant and him and his family had nothing to do with us until she was 3 months old....... and that was only because i drove the 9 hours to take her to them. Now his mother is starting to ask me for shared custody. Me and 'the father' have come to an arragement that we are happy with but that does not involve overnight stays or visits without me there as he is not ready to be by himself with her. I got slightly worried when his mother suggested that we do 50/50 custody but she was the one getting the custody not her son........ and the fact she wanted her 50% custody to be a 6 month block. HELL NO i said. I'm really not ready to let my 4 month old daughter spend a night away from me.