PAMELA - posted on 10/09/2010 ( 40 moms have responded )
So two days ago i went to court with my youngest child's father. I got awarded 17% child support and a temporary order of primary placment and he has temporary secondary placement. He was requesting 50/50 which i wouldnt allow because she is about to be 10 months old and he has seen her three times. So anyways i ask him after if we are going to work out an agrangment because we were ordered to mediation. He says i doubt it cause your not going to drop the support. All he cares about is the child support. We agreed on every other weekend to begin with and it can gradually get more frequent. He now says he is going to fight me for full custody, but if i drop the support he will let it go the way it is. I would win but it is extreamly expensive to fight. Do i fight or drop the support?