Sabrina - posted on 07/09/2011 ( 23 moms have responded )
I have a dilemma...i want to file for child support because i want him to contribute something, but i know SD would ask for visitation rights just to get back to me, which i don't want to give him because he was never there and he would never be there if i don't initiate it, he just doesn't care at all and he has a gf that's a total bitch, so i'm worried she'll emotionally abuse my son if he's with his "father". in other words, i'll just be asking for drama if i ask for child support.
OR should i just leave things alone, knowing SD will never ask to see my son because he's afraid to pay for child support...besides, i don't need anything from him, i was just going to put the child support money in a college fund for my son. i also don't think it'll be good for my son to be around his "father" who doesn't give crap about him. like i said, he would rather not see his son at all than pay child support.
Thanks in advance for the help :)