Tiffany - posted on 11/05/2010 ( 17 moms have responded )
I am 7 months pregnant and my sperm donor has wanted nothing to do with me. When I first found out I was pregnant he told me to get an abortion, talked to me badly, etc basically he didn't care. At 6 months pregnant he randomly sent me a text asking how the baby was and that was about it. I have asked him to get diapers, just things shell need before she gets here and he told me thats what child support is for and that I was greedy. He knows what Im going to name my daughter and insists that hell pronounce her name the way he wants which will only cause her confusion. He claims hell be there for her when she gets here, but quite frankly I dont believe it. Just wanted to give a little back ground first. My questions are...well he has no job so Im wondering how child support will go about...and with visitation I want it to be supervised(my instinct tells me to not leave her alone with him) besides his own sis didnt want him to watch their baby cousin.My last question is about custody...how do I got about getting that settled. I live in Texas if that helps.
Oh yea. I dont plan on having him on the birth certificate, he hasn't even bothered to ask where Im delivering.