Single Moms

When not communicating well with child's father, what should be done?

Tell him how you are feeling out of anger and rage. 0% (0 votes)

Try to sit with him and explain the situation. 71% (5 votes)

If he doesn't want to listen to you, take his time away from his son. 14% (1 vote)

Ignore it, things might get worse later. There is nothing much you can do. 14% (1 vote)

7 Total Votes

Do you think a child's father should be granted full custody if the child doesn't know her/him?

Yes he should 0% (0 votes)

Both parents should be apart of the child's life 0% (0 votes)

It depends on the situation 67% (10 votes)

No way 33% (5 votes)

Maybe 0% (0 votes)

15 Total Votes

Still sexually active with other parent of your child but both of you are seeing someone else. Would you

Keep the mentality that "they'll always be my childs mother/dad" 22% (2 votes)

Put an end to it. Things are getting too close. *not as often* 22% (2 votes)

Try to be monogamous in your current relationship 44% (4 votes)

Eventually request an "open relationship" 11% (1 vote)

My options have always been left open. 0% (0 votes)

9 Total Votes

Tell them 1 last time your real feelings to see what happens 0% (0 votes)

Hope that once you both get the experience, they'll come back 0% (0 votes)

Just say forget it. It must not have been meant & keep it moving 100% (3 votes)

Try to mess up their relationship with hopes he/she will be back 0% (0 votes)

Tell yourself "this can't be life" and cry over spilled milk 0% (0 votes)

3 Total Votes

stand up for yourself by arguing back saying he's wrong...... 0% (0 votes)

just ignore him to keep away the stress it may end up causing 0% (0 votes)

play the game back at him like you just don't care 0% (0 votes)

tell him ok he is right and you were wrong 0% (0 votes)

tell him too bad either he can visit when im available or dont 100% (4 votes)

4 Total Votes

what would you do if 9mth babys dad only came to see him/her 2x a wk for 30min & DOES pay child support?

just keep it this way since he does pay support without court 15% (2 votes)

take him to court which may endup with him taking baby out 0% (0 votes)

let it go if he pays his part & let him visit when he wants 23% (3 votes)

not allow him to visit until priorities are fixed 23% (3 votes)

if he pays & visits at your home let it go 38% (5 votes)

13 Total Votes

Have you ever suffered from mommy burnout?

Oh yeah! I've been there 33% (7 votes)

Nope. Never. 5% (1 vote)

I'm not too sure but I have been stressed 29% (6 votes)

I'm going through mommy burnout now 33% (7 votes)

21 Total Votes

SINGLE MOMMIES- If there's been a lot of lies, broken promises, barely sees her dad, he doesn't pay for kid?

Would you say I'm sorry I've gave you a hundred chance bye 62% (15 votes)

Keeep giving him more chances cause you going to move soon ish 0% (0 votes)

Say see your daughter and give her money man up be a dad (bye) 38% (9 votes)

Just take his crap and pretend like nothings wrong 0% (0 votes)

Or something else and send me your answer to inbox 0% (0 votes)

24 Total Votes

For all single MOM's!! Did the kids' dad......

Walk out and never looked back? 27% (10 votes)

Takes the kids on a regular basis? 24% (9 votes)

Make lot's of broken promises to the kids, and not follow thRU? 49% (18 votes)

37 Total Votes

should u tell a child why u and their father didnt work out

yes 11% (6 votes)

no 0% (0 votes)

when they ask 26% (14 votes)

when they are old enough 62% (33 votes)

let the dad tell 0% (0 votes)

53 Total Votes

stay at home mommys...how often do you need a break/night to yourself without baby?

every 3 or 4 days 13% (4 votes)

once a week 26% (8 votes)

once or twice a month 61% (19 votes)

31 Total Votes

Babys dads girlfriend is comming between him and the baby...

he should man up, hes his own person 67% (24 votes)

grin and bare it 3% (1 vote)

mention it at the visiting rights battle 11% (4 votes)

tell him its her or the baby- knowing he'll pick her 11% (4 votes)

get the hell out and ignore his threats 8% (3 votes)

36 Total Votes

when kids argue

punish both of them 59% (51 votes)

punish the one that started it 7% (6 votes)

leave it alone, they will solve it 31% (27 votes)

call dad for back up 3% (3 votes)

87 Total Votes

when should you introduce your child to a new bf?

after 2 weeks 2% (2 votes)

1-2 months? 20% (22 votes)

straight away 6% (7 votes)

3+ months 72% (78 votes)

109 Total Votes

Have you had problems with a family court judge not following the law?

YES 15% (8 votes)

No 62% (34 votes)

Not Sure 11% (6 votes)

Yes , and something needs to change, I would like more info. 13% (7 votes)

55 Total Votes

Do you Think children should follow a scheduled routine in their home?

Yes. Children thrive on routine and behave better when they do 40% (69 votes)

Yes, so long as their is room for give when needed. 54% (94 votes)

No, children should decide for themselves when to play,eat,sleep 2% (4 votes)

No, children get to much of that at school already 2% (4 votes)

undecuded 1% (2 votes)

173 Total Votes

Do you let your kids choose what to wear... even if they dont match

no I pick out what they wear. 12% (34 votes)

I will let them choose between two or three outfits 23% (64 votes)

depends on where we are going. 44% (121 votes)

yes even if its rain boots with shorts. Its their own style. 21% (59 votes)

278 Total Votes

If your childs dad stopped contact because of new girlfriend for 10 yrs, then wanted contact with his child

Say yes, straight away 0% (1 vote)

Talk with him and then decide 13% (28 votes)

Leave it up to your child to decide- IF OLD ENOUGH 67% (140 votes)

Inform child support to get money owed to you. 6% (13 votes)

Go to court 13% (27 votes)

209 Total Votes

do you think a single man can take good care of his kids??

yes I know a wonderful man that is doint it ahd his wonderful. 37% (89 votes)

when a father love his kids yes 63% (153 votes)

242 Total Votes

What do u think about a man who takes care of another mans child.

I think there r still a few good men . 42% (115 votes)

I think he is god sent. 58% (156 votes)

271 Total Votes

What would you do if your child is getting bullied at school & it seems noone cares?

Contact the media. 34% (56 votes)

Ignore it,..it will get better. 5% (8 votes)

Call the Police. 48% (80 votes)

Keep Him/Her home 13% (21 votes)

165 Total Votes

Is your child/children getting the swine flu vaccine?

not sure yet 12% (32 votes)

Not right away 3% (9 votes)

No 58% (157 votes)

Yes 27% (74 votes)

272 Total Votes

Do you let your child play with kids whose parents parenting you don't like???

Yes, because kids will be kids anyway. 27% (95 votes)

No 15% (54 votes)

Yes,but,let tht parent knw wht is/isnt acceptable w/your child. 41% (147 votes)

No, because tht child might teach your child things u wouldnt 17% (60 votes)

356 Total Votes