Kimberly - posted on 04/07/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
My daughter is two years old. Her father did not show up for christmas nor thanksgiving. I would often be the one who would set up visits between him and my daughter. Christmas and thanksgiving had came and went with no visit from him. Her dad has recently moved in with his new girlfriend after 3months of dating and has now decided that he needs to be more active in her life. (personally I think he is just wants to play house with my child ) My issue is that I am completly uncomfortable with letting her go visit her dad for two reasons. First, they live at least a hr away and I have no idea what his living conditions are like (as he is not the most emotionally stable person) secondly, I am completely uncomfortable with her being around his new girlfriend who I have never met. I have informed him that he is more than welcome to visit with her on our side of town or even at his mothers house. She is two years old and I just feel that she is too young to be visiting with her dad and a complete stranger as far as I am concerned. Not only that,( sorry this is long) but our conversations with each other are very hostile and he feels that he does not owe me an explanation when I ask him simple questions. What do you think? I dont want to push him away from his daughter but I need to protect her as well.