Erin - posted on 03/26/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
So I hav e a 12 year old daughter. He dad and i split up when she was 2 his involvement has been limited to say the least he pretty much sees her when he feels like it or when he is trying to look good for his parents. My daughter dose not really ask about him but i know she gets sad that he is not around anyway my problem is that as of last night he is back with an ex girlfriend that he dated for about 3 years they broke up in 08 or 09 she had a baby with the man she was cheating on him with. They are now back together and he is rasing this child with her. I can not tell you how sick I am that he will nbe a parent to a child that is not his and treat our daughter like crap hhe didn't get our child a Christmas gift or even call her ,on her birthday a few weeks ago. He also was auppose to see her a few days before her bday but when I called to ask his address he wouldnt answer he had called me earlier that day to make aure I w,,as in town I called him 6 times before I had to leave the town he lives in and come home I am so scared that she will now find out that he ia raising another persons kid when he choeses not to be in her life andblow her off like ahe doae not matter I am so acared if ahe finds out that she will be very upset and that it may even create emotional probmelms for her. My 2nd concern is that when he was with this girl before he would not help me with anything for our daughter he told me one year he couldnt help with school clothes because he had to make the gf's car payment. After they broke up he told me he would spend $600 a month on new clothes and things for the gf meanwhile I have to skip a car payment to buy school clothes dor our kid he only pays me $200 a month in child support so now that they are back together I can only imagine how it wull be and I do not want to see my kid go without while her and hers are spoiled not only quill she have him as a father to her kid but his money too. I tried to talk to him about this last night and all he said was I am jealous. I assuerd him that was not it i juat don't understand how he can be like this. After our talk he blocked me in Facebook and his gf also blocked me I honestly feel like i just want him gone it would be better than the way he is now I went on my daughters Facebook and blocked both her father and his gf I also called me cell phone company and blocked all of hia #'s to all of ours. I also called today and filed to have my child support inceeqsed that was a nightmare that I know will only get worse. When he is serves with papwrwork but he makes 90,000 a year and pats me #200 a month so I dont care I just feel like it is alot all at once. Usually I have little to no contact with him but it kills me he would do this. Am I way off here by bein mad about him bein around foe another child and not his own?