Galina - posted on 06/22/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
My ex has had very terrible time with me over the years, never married, kept me under control as he cheated and acused me for all he could,we have a 8 year old son, he has always been late or simply not showing up for parenting, only paying support when I am nice to him, but still him and our son had a loving connection. It was so hard on me all these years as finally i put a foot down and said "no more! grow up or be gone." So this is what he did: he is gone! Funny enough tho, the week he said I ve ruined his life his new girlfriend turns out pregnant. He has not seen his son in more than 6months and the new baby is coming very soon. I am very very hurt for what he is doing to us and most importantly to my son's world. How should I handle this situation? What will he feel like finding out one day that his beloved dad has a new child?! The dad that was all "his"? Its absolutely heart breaking.