DeLores - posted on 03/14/2010 ( 17 moms have responded )
My four month old daughter's sperm donor now wants to meet me for lunch and see her... he met her once before, held her for two or three minutes tops... and then disappeared for four months. I kicked him out when I was three months pregnant for hitting me... Im too strong to go through that.
Child support is not an option... he would go to jail on the spot if he got brave enough to file for visitation... apparently he has several other kids that he isnt there for and owes ALOT in back child support... so I guess my question is... morally... would I be just if I kept my daughter from him for fear that he will be a fair weather father... Here today, gone tomorrow... Stability? or do I owe her the right to know him, and learn for herself?