Luvmia - posted on 05/08/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
Good evening fellow mommies!
This is a letter written to an author by a "wronged" husband pleading for her help. lol.
My wife is one of your biggest fans and she seems to value your opinion. Hopefully she will read you response to our dilemma. Well, here goes. My wife and I have been married for almost ten years and we have children together. I love her so much. A few years ago I did some really foul shit. I was laid off from my job and was offered unemployment for two years or until I was called back whichever came first. My wife told me to get another job and she would help me. I ain't never got unemployment, so I wanted to get that free cheese. She said that if I am not busy or working then I would get into trouble with so much time on my hands. She was right. I started hanging with my single and younger friends. She was against that decision. Well my friends introduced me to a "party girl". We talked, got high, drunk, and hooked up a few times, then she moved away. Well the girl contacted my wife on facebook and told her we had a one year old son together and she needed help. My wife thought it was joke and called me. At first I denied knowing the girl but later had to admit the truth. I told my wife the child was not mine because I was not the only one she was with. The girl was a prostitute and she even admitted it to my wife in the message that she met me when she was sellling her body. Well, dna proved the kid to be mine.
My wife was ready to leave me but I begged her no to. She agreed to work on the marriage with counseling. Counseling for the marriage and counseling for my cocaine use (she did not know this until the girl told her), sex addiction, and alcoholism. I really think she asking too much from me. I am not a junkie or a drunk or a sex addict. I admit I have cheated on her before and used drugs every now and then. But I am not an addict. I am still on the couch. She refuses to have unprotected sex with me. We have never used condoms before. She has had TWO HIV tests since she found out six months ago. She is driving me away with all these rules and demands. This shit came out over six months ago, I think it is about time she get over it. What's done is done and can't be undone. How long is too long for the dog house?
So....ladies....any thoughts? I am DYING to hear them!