Ex husbands mistress causing problems

Laura - posted on 11/01/2017 ( no moms have responded yet )

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My soon to be ex husband cheated on me, and now this girl (She's 18!) Has been sending me messages making fun of me for losing him. She has broken all my wedding pictures (I took my 7 month old and moved to my parents 8 weeks ago) and has hit my ex twice when he told her he wanted ro wprk things out with me. Now that I ended the marriage he is back with her and I do not want my daughter around her. Is there any way I can put in the separation agreement that he is welcome to have joint custody, but he is not to bring this girl around her? If she is violent and abusive to him, I worry for my daughter's well being both physically and emotionally.
The problem is that I have no evidence that she's a psycho besides her texts to me, nothing to indicate she is physically violent. Any advice? I'm absolutely broken inside and do not want my daughter around this horrible human being.

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Sarah - posted on 11/03/2017

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Keep all of the evidence that you have and try to work out an agreement. Lots of divorced couples have rules that partners may not sleep over etc when the kids are around. If she is as awful as you say; he will probably wise up and dump her. Meanwhile ask him to use his parenting time to parent his child without a girlfriend around.

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