Annabeth - posted on 09/17/2010 ( 18 moms have responded )
To explain everything that happened i should start from scratch. I met my ex at a party about 18 month ago and we hit it of straight away. I was only 14 at the time and Mitch was 17. We started seeing each other, went to the movies, to the beach, parties together, we would talk for hours on the phone about everything and anything. We hung out on weekends and pretty soon we were inseperable. I would spend weekends at his place and everything was going great for a while. I started hanging out with his mates who used drugs and pretty soon i was caught up in drugs as well. Then one day he asked me if i could do him a favour. He wanted more drugs but had no money so he asked if i would sleep with his dealer in exchange for drugs. I was stupid and i agreed. I know it was stupid but at the time to me everythig he said was like gospel to me. A few days later again he asked the same thing but with a different guy and again i agreed. About 8 months ago i moved i with him and we would fight all the time and about a month later i started getting really sick, throwing up all the time so i went to the doctor. I found out i was pregnant about 2 months along. I immediately stopped the drugs because i wanted to have the baby. I was worried how my ex would react to the idea f having a baby and when i did tell him that night he told me to have an abortion. I refused and for the next few days he keep arguying with me, putting me down all the time, and then one day he hit me. He kept pushing me to have an abortion and i got to the stage where i was so scared of him that i felt trapped. Then the next night i told my brother everything and he told me to pack my shit and leave as soon as possible. So i did, i waited until he was asleep and i left him. I moved back in with my mum and i told her i was pregnant. She said she would support me and about a month ago i got a phone call from ym ex asking if i had had the kid yet. I said no and he hung up. On the 4th of September i gave birth to a healthy baby boy Alexander. I ran my ex the next day to tell him about the baby but he wasn't home but his mum answered the phone. I told her about Alexander and she didn't even know i had been pregnant. She said her and her husband would love to meet Xander and i was fin with that. But my ex well he went off his head when he rang me that night because i had told his mum about the baby. He said the brat wasn't his and that i was a slut who cheated all the time. Anyway he rang a few times after that just to go off at me and then i aranged to stay with his paents this weekend. When he found out he rang to say he would drop by so we could TALK. 2 days ago Mary and Frank drove up and stayed over night. They met Xander and it was really good to see them. Yesterday i drove back to their place with Xander and everything was great. My ex showed up at his parents place today and accused me of cheating again, said i was a druggie, a slut, and quite a few other things which i woud prefer not to say on here. He saw Xander and the first thing he said was that brat is not mine. He then walked outside and took off in his car. I was really shaken after he left because of how he treated not only me but Xander, his mum and his dad. I have not done anything to him and yet he still treats me like crap. I am really scared of him, you can never tell what he is going to do next. He is very unpredictable and i really don't know what to do.