Amy - posted on 09/19/2012 ( 16 moms have responded )
OK, sooo short version is he insisted my whole pregnancy and the first 5 months of my son's life (until DNA came back) that my son wasn't his. He did come to the hospital when I had him, altho he brought his gf that he had cheated on me with...(This mama was NOT pleased).When DNA came back, he actually made an effort for a month to see him and all, never once buying anything for my son. Anything he gave me for my son, was given to him by a friend. Well then, anytime I showed up to my friends house that he was staying with (she was letting him so he would be able to see the baby) he would get up and leave. My son went through a 7 hour surgery when he was 9 months old, and he didn't even call or text me to see how things had gone. About a month before my son's 1st birthday, I drove upstate to see some family and my son's sperm donor calls me demanding that I let him see my son and that I wasn't going to see any child support until he got to see my son. Well to make a long story short, my son is now almost 15 months old, and I haven't heard one peep from him wanting to see my son or anything, just hearing about him running his mouth about "that dumb b@@@@ not letting him see HIS son." Now his family is pressuring me to let him see my son and that I should drop my son off at their house to let the deadbeat see him for a while. Am I wrong in not wanting to just up and let him have his way? I'm just protecting my son from the drug use and type of environment that he will be in when he would be around the deadbeat. I trust the family member that offered their house, but I just don't like feeling pressured like this....