How do i ever get over my husband leaving me ? :0( x

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Lauren - posted on 05/03/2011

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My now ex-husband came home from work last August 5 and said that he wanted a divorce and didn't want to be married anymore. My daughter was only 5 months old, so you can imagine, I was heartbroken. I begged and pleaded for us to try to work it out, to no avail. He left me for another woman, so I was the one to file for divorce. Over time, you just choose your path in life and choose happiness for yourself and child/children. My divorce was finalized in February, and my ex-husband is now already re-married and his new wife is already 5 months pregnant. After he started treating me horrible, I knew that I did not want to get back together with him. It's just a daily choice that you make to keep your life going without a spouse. I can honestly say that I am pretty happy with my life right now and am enjoying being single...I mean, it beats being in a relationship and being put down all the time! You will make it through though!!

Amanda - posted on 05/01/2011

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Well you didn't give much info so I will try to help with what I have. How do you get over him leaving the truth you may never completely get over it, you will move on, you will grow but always part of you will hold him leaving you. I'm talking from experince, but Its only been 1yr and 5months since mine left me when I was 6 months preg. The way I've moved on I've looked at all the positives that have came frome him leaving us. I also have a great support group without them I wouldn't be as far as I am. It is very hard but everyone moves past maybe not completely over but always past.

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Shanae - posted on 05/02/2011

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my husband just left me five days ago..i came home and all of his things were gone..he went to his mothers home...because we had a small argument earlier in the day..his mother wont give him the phone so that we can talk..i dont know how im going to get over this

Tammy - posted on 05/01/2011

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Thankyou very much for that. sorry to hear your husband left you too. just at the moment i feel that i won't ever move on..i suppose everyone feels the same. I just feel so gutted for my children too.. they idolise their father . I never saw this coming either, he didnt leave me for anyone else( so he says) he just simply fell out of love . Thankyou again, feels much better to chat about it x

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