Amber - posted on 09/27/2011 ( 7 moms have responded )
My son is 16 months and I got pregnant by my son's father within a few months of being together. I didn't know then but he had just gotten out of prison and wanted a child so secretly got me pregnant! I wouldn't take back my son now but I am stuck having to deal with the sperm donor. He wants to be in my son's life so I let him see him whenever he wants for the most part but I won't let him be alone with my son or I. He has said he would kill me if I ever keep my son from him. He also says if I date anyone he will have them beaten or killed. He is on heroin and pills but denies it even though I caught him red handed with heroin in his vehicle while he was visiting my son at my house. I told his family because before this they were in denial. He went to "rehab" for a week and now they are all singing his praises and saying I should trust him but I know he is back to doing drugs and dealing drugs. He is not safe and hangs out with drug dealers and people who are also doing heroin. He is getting more demanding on seeing my son alone but I won't let him. He isn't listed on the birth certificate so legally he has no rights but if he takes me to court I just don't know what to do! Does anyone know what I can do besides just documenting his visits with my son to make sure if he takes me to court he doesn't get to just take my son and put him in harm's way?