Amanda - posted on 12/19/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )
the father of my son is in the military. so he is never around. he never calls. he never checks in. nothing. and he is incredibly disrespectful. every word that a real man should never say to the women taking care of his child or any women in the matter he has said it to me over and over. and no matter how hard i try to be nice to him for my son he wants nothing to do with it so you can really see how much he really cares for him. anyways the last 2 times hes come home hes felt the need to sneak around me to see my son. and has his mom do it for him. have his mom lie about it. say my mom is staying somewhere like at his brothers so i think ok thats fine he hasnt seen them in a while when in fact hes staying somewhere else. and doesnt even tell me. so i cant trust that family at all. i cant put up with it anymore i have to deal with it for 3 years now. so im just wondering how do i begin to get sole custody?