Kylie - posted on 12/19/2009 ( 10 moms have responded )
I am 23 years old and had already broken up with my 10 month old daughter's father before i even found out i was pregnant. i considered not telling him but in the end decided to do the right thing. for the part 5 months my daughter's father comes once a week and spends one hour with her. i have trouble accepting him as her father and hate seeing him holding her. i dread the day he wants to take her outside my house and for longer then a hour. its not that he is a bad person he just doesnt have a clue about children. the night after he has been over isabelle is a nightmare. she wakes up hourly and wont settle. does anyone have any suggestions how i can be more calm around my daughter's father and how to deal with him?