Queenie - posted on 03/31/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
Me and my ex divorced more than 2 years ago, when I was just having my second baby. I found out he is cheating on me when I was still pregnant with my second child, and after the second child birth, he just decided to divorce me. That time my eldest was only 2 years old +, he asked me go back to my hometown and said that he will come over and visit the kids someday. Ever since my second child was born, he rarely see her, he doesn't come home, until the time he asked me to move back to my parents place. After that he practically gone missing, he never visit the kids until today, when my eldest is about to turn 5 years old and my younger one is turning 3 years old in another 3 weeks time. What got me most upset is, I brought the girl to his hometown for a few days holiday, hope that at least he will spend some times with the girl, but I guess it was too much, he practically off his mobile when it is about the time to meet up. Yesterday my aunt from US comes back to my hometown and ask my girls where is their father? My girl said my daddy is a bad person. It got me shock when she said that, cause I never really mention about him, as few months back, her dad finally wants to see her on Skype, when I on Skype, my daughter actually ask me, "mummy is this your friend?" I don't know how to react, cause the truth is their dad haven't see them for so long and they already forgot him. And now with the answer she told my aunt, what should I do? How should I tell her about our divorce? I don't want her to have bad impression on men. Help me!!!!