Amanda - posted on 11/18/2009 ( 17 moms have responded )
I recently found out that my husband ( well we are not married but live together with our kids) has been cheating on me. We have been together for 5 yrs and have 2 kids together and 1 on the way. I found stuff on the computer and confronted him and he came clean and told me the truth that hew slept with other woman. I am devistated and kicked him out the house. I no longer want to be with him but wondering if I made the right choice for our children. I mean one isn't even born yet. I am so torn right now and confused. He calls me everyday and says he wants me back and to work on the relationship and that he would never do it again. Well , he has done it in the past when we were first together and I forgave him then. As the saying goes, once a cheat always a cheat. Should I follow my heart and move on and be friends with him for the sake of our kids or get back together with him. I am just looking for some answers. Anyone been through this before and what kind of outcome did you have? Thanks everyone.