i am hurting pl help

Amrina - posted on 07/26/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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The pain of being separated increasing day by day. I try to focus my life but he is on my mind all the time. i just want to know how long it will take me to forget him ? I just hate myself for loving him. He did very bad to me but still i think of him.huh

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Amrina - posted on 07/27/2012

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thanx Janet & Shaquincia for a helpful reply :)

Shaquincia - posted on 07/26/2012

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It takes time baby. You are not going to heal over night. Try doing things that will help you keep him off your mind. plan days out with the kids just to have a little fun. Have friends come over and talk, play cards, bbq anything. just try to keep your mind occupied as much as possible, so you won't think about him as much. But you will still think about him here and there. it's all about time.

Janet - posted on 07/26/2012

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I'd like to tell you that it will all go away and you'll feel much better - but it really depends on you.

It took me a long time to realize that it wasn't really the person I was missing, but companionship. I missed my friend, I missed having someone to talk to, someone breathing next to me at night and someone I could share things with.

Take a deep breath, because although this is hard, you can do it.