I dont know who my childs father is how do i tell her?

Cristina - posted on 08/11/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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im a single mother of a beautiful daughter named daniella. i had her when i was 16, i was drunk and i had a one night stand ,with her dad imet him that night .. i dont even remember his first name... i dont know anything about him and after that night weve lost contact.. i was with my first love around that time we were together for 4 years, i told him i cheated and my baby might not be his weve gotten past it but never had a dna test but i know my daughter isnt his because my baby is black and hes spanish and the times in my pregancy makes nine months from the one night stand so i know it isnt his we both know it, and hes been her father for about two years afterwards and still loved her UNTIL we broke up we never got a dna test though. .. i know wat ur thinking i was sooooooo stupid I KNOW ;( i was soo young and stupid and carefree !! i made one mistake and my daughter has to deal with it forever its makes me feel like trash !! ive learned from it it and its sucks i can never take it back ! ;( i was up crying all lastnight still havent slept wondering.... HOW WILL I TELL MY DAUGHTER ???? will she hate me forever????

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Michelle - posted on 08/11/2012

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no use it as a learning experience, explain to her that you did something foolish when you were young that resulted in something beautiful and though you never regret having her you regret not being careful and not being in love with the person who fathered your child