Valerie - posted on 08/02/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )
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I'm 23 years old with a 5 year old son, His father loves him a lot. I found out a couple of weeks ago that I am 23 weeks pregnant with my second child (it is my ex's aka my sons father) My sons father and I have been broken up for over 2 years and he has a girlfriend(the one he cheated on me with) but when I found out I was pregnant from him I made him tell her that he had cheated on her with me and that this is the outcome because I dont think thats something you lie to another person about (plus why should I be the whore) when he told her obviously they broke up and she was mad at him. Now he wants to walk away from his family being me his son and the new baby just so maybe she will be with him. I had said to him that he can walk away and not be involved and I wont hate him but I dont want him to walk away from his son the one who depends on him and already has a relationship but I feel that if he stays with this girl she will throw a fit everytime he comes to see his son because the baby will be here also and I'm not letting my sons father take him to her house because I dont want to risk anything bad happening to him or her saying something bad about me to his father and he hear I never speak bad about hs father in front of him. On top of all this I also watch my 18 month nephew and I'm a SAHM and when I was in labor with my first my water broke luckily at the Dr's office and labor was only 4 hours and 20 mins I guess I'm just afraid that if I'm home alone that I wont be able to get to the hospital plus my son starts kindergarten in a few weeks and I wouldnt want him to be stuck at school because I'm having a baby.... I guess I just have a lot going through my head. If any one has any advice i would easily take it I feel so lost right now... But Excited to have a second baby I cant wait
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