Stephanie - posted on 12/08/2010 ( 31 moms have responded )
My ex and I split up the end of June and before we got lawyers he was allowed to see her when I said so. Well now we have lawyers and we've been on a trial basis for the every other week shared custody. I'm starting to notice a change in my daughter with this transition. She cries when she has to go with her dad and I feel like she's confused as to where she belongs. We're suppose to be going to court the end of this month or beggining of January and I want this every other week to stop. I know he's not gonna give it up without a fight and other than what I've noticed in my daughter I don't really have any other reason as to why it should stop. I guess what I'm asking is what kind of custody you ladies have if you have 50/50 or what you do have. And if you have 50/50 how do you make it work? and how does it affect your child/children? I need to know what I can do to get it to stop..I just want whats best for my daughter and besides seeing her dad I just dont think it's working out.