I NEED TO VENT! U? NO HOLDING BACK

CARRIE - posted on 10/06/2009 ( 143 moms have responded )

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we are all here for advice and encouraging words. i find this site very helpful. but there are times when we get so angry, upset, and confused WE NEED TO VENT. almost like a journal. i know i can get so angry at my daughters father that it would end up with assult charges. but i could totally punch him in the mouth with the ignorant crap that comes out of it. if he was such a man, then he should take a punch like one. ok, instead of a punch, maybe a bitch slap cause thats what hes acting like. he is so arrogant, i actually read online how to deal with know it alls. its useful. now i know i will punch him with kindness. oooooooooo it killed him last nite. as i leave you all to vent about anything, I STILL COULD PUNCH HIM SOMETIMES. WOW! I FEEL BETTER NOW!

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Sarah - posted on 10/07/2009

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I hate my sons father with a passion. I hate getting his money even more. I don't want him thinking he's paying my bills or our sons! I surely don't want him to think i need his money either. My kids child support is literally wasted on whatever my son asks for at the store. I don't need his money! I've supported my son since birth without his fricking help! I do wish there was a day to shoot idiots but then again that would hurt my son in the end!

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Ginny - posted on 10/19/2009

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Quoting Kristan:

awe i love you ladies. it feels soo much better knowing im not alone. im changing me and my sons last name to my mothers maiden name. i am soo excited..i hate having my husbands name now...its soo embarassing to have been so happy and married and in love only to have him run off the first chance he got..im super embarassed...and i hate him with everything in me...i had a talk with my grandpa today and he told me to not go soft and to get EVERYTHING and also gave me permission to have his name :) and you knwo what i love my grandpa and respect him so i will follow his advice...Lance is not gunna know what fucking hit him :) that is all. HAhahah



Kristan~ What a piece of shit! Follow what your grandpa said, don't go soft and take it all. You deserve more than that! And you're right he wont know what hits him, the reason for that is because you have to have a brain AND use it to know what the F is going on! Keep your chin up girly, you're doing great!!

Ginny - posted on 10/19/2009

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Quoting CARRIE:

ASHLEY--- SOMETIMES CRYING IS VENTING. MY HEART IS SO BROKEN . I USE TO KEEP EVERYTHING INSIDE. THEN PEOPLE JUST RAN OVER ME. NOW I TELL IT LIKE IT IS WITH A PINCH OF HUMOR. I FIGURED IF I LAUGH WITH ALL YOU BABYS MAMAS, I COULD GET THROUGH THIS.

BRITTANY------ IM GUNNA KICK YOUR BUT.LOL! I WILL JOIN YOUR COMMUNITY IF YOU JOIN MINE. HOWEVER I DID START THIS VENTING AND I REALLY DO CARE AND READ EVERYONE. BUT ITS COOL WE ALL CAN DO THIS TOGETHER.

LAKYSHA---- I WAS DROPPED LIKE A SAC OF POTATOES. DAMN THAT SHIT HURTS. I KEEP ASKING WHY. WHY WOULD A PERSON BE SO DAMN RUDE. I GAVE UP MY LIFE, CAR, JOB, AND HIS DUMB ASS BROKE UP WITH ME X-MAS EVE. SHIT GIRL, MAYBE YOU NEED TO GIVE ME SOME ADVICE.

GINNY----- COURT WAS GOOD HUH? 6 MONTHS PROTECTION AINT BAD AT ALL. SO WHEN U COMING TO NORTH CAROLINA SO WE CAN DRINK SOME GIN. U DRUNK BITCH. JK LOL! YOU KNOW I LOVE YA


CARRIE~ You're killing me! It's not bad, but too bad some of my bff's took me out last night and the asshole came walking into the bar, thank god for great friends because one of them looked right at him and told him if he didn't get out she was calling the cops. AHHHH will it ever end?!?! I would sooo love to go to North Carolina so we could grab a drink, it's gonna have to wait a while though, seeing how I'm still preggers! LOL Oh and who you calling a drunk bitch? Are you looking in the mirror? JK LOL! You know I love ya too!

CARRIE - posted on 10/18/2009

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JEMMA, what a jerk. thats messed up. yea they dont realize we did this shit alone. they dont understand it was hard as hell for us. keep intouch. it sounds like we r going through the same exact thing. go to the community LAUGH YOUR ASS OFF FUN. you will have a damn good laugh

Jemma - posted on 10/18/2009

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i can't stop laughing!!!

my gorgeous girlys father left me wen i was 6 weeks pregnant! he ran back to his x that day!!

then decided that Ava was not his blah blah blah. didnt bother at all all through pregnancy!!

ava was born and i didnt tell him, i left it up to my mum to inform his pathetic waste of space family! she did and we did not hear a thing. so i contact him wen she was 4 weeks old and the pathetic bastardm said!! " YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND HOW HARD IT IS FOR EVERYONE"

im sorry did you go through this alone? did you give birth? did you pay for every thing?

wat a plank. apparently because his x got pregnant and lost baby again! (lots of drugs involved) a feww weeks after we split....

he can not see ava.

Grow some bollocks and meet your beautiful daughter!.

SO I JOIN YOU ON THE PUNCHING HIS LIGHTS OUT!!

CARRIE - posted on 10/17/2009

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i cant believe we let let do this to us. sometimes i think i should slap myself.

JOAN it is so hard to be nice. lately i have. i dont even know how or waht to think sometimes.

LaKysha - posted on 10/16/2009

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Yeah one day the pain does go away I am just waiting for that day it seems as if we can get so high as mothers and all the fathers job is to bring us back down. I am so tired of my sons father having that type of control....

Kimberly - posted on 10/15/2009

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I'm glad to have joined. I know now that I'm not alone. It is finally great to know there are women out there who are like me and I need to vent to someone who can relate. Don't get me wrong I listen when a friend gives advice, but she is getting married to her other half and she has no children. Thanks for letting me vent.

Joan - posted on 10/15/2009

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Well I am glad of one thing. I am not the only one who feels this way. I never win arguments and I am never right. I get so frustrated and it makes me so sad because he takes it out on the kids.(not by hitting but by a crappy attitude and of course mentioning to them what a crappy person I am) And I'm the one that invites him to Thanksgiving Dinner, Birthday Parties witht he kids and Christmas. Well, I hope your solution works Carrie, let me know if it does. (it is difficult to be nice sometimes)

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awe i love you ladies. it feels soo much better knowing im not alone. im changing me and my sons last name to my mothers maiden name. i am soo excited..i hate having my husbands name now...its soo embarassing to have been so happy and married and in love only to have him run off the first chance he got..im super embarassed...and i hate him with everything in me...i had a talk with my grandpa today and he told me to not go soft and to get EVERYTHING and also gave me permission to have his name :) and you knwo what i love my grandpa and respect him so i will follow his advice...Lance is not gunna know what fucking hit him :) that is all. HAhahah

CARRIE - posted on 10/14/2009

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ASHLEY--- SOMETIMES CRYING IS VENTING. MY HEART IS SO BROKEN . I USE TO KEEP EVERYTHING INSIDE. THEN PEOPLE JUST RAN OVER ME. NOW I TELL IT LIKE IT IS WITH A PINCH OF HUMOR. I FIGURED IF I LAUGH WITH ALL YOU BABYS MAMAS, I COULD GET THROUGH THIS.



BRITTANY------ IM GUNNA KICK YOUR BUT.LOL! I WILL JOIN YOUR COMMUNITY IF YOU JOIN MINE. HOWEVER I DID START THIS VENTING AND I REALLY DO CARE AND READ EVERYONE. BUT ITS COOL WE ALL CAN DO THIS TOGETHER.



LAKYSHA---- I WAS DROPPED LIKE A SAC OF POTATOES. DAMN THAT SHIT HURTS. I KEEP ASKING WHY. WHY WOULD A PERSON BE SO DAMN RUDE. I GAVE UP MY LIFE, CAR, JOB, AND HIS DUMB ASS BROKE UP WITH ME X-MAS EVE. SHIT GIRL, MAYBE YOU NEED TO GIVE ME SOME ADVICE.



GINNY----- COURT WAS GOOD HUH? 6 MONTHS PROTECTION AINT BAD AT ALL. SO WHEN U COMING TO NORTH CAROLINA SO WE CAN DRINK SOME GIN. U DRUNK BITCH. JK LOL! YOU KNOW I LOVE YA

Ashley - posted on 10/13/2009

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Hi everyone....I was reading some of your postings and ventings about the men in your lives....I wish I could do that. Yea, I really and truly need it sometimes, but I always end up bawling my eyes out lol. I keep a lot inside because it seems sometimes like no one can truly understand at least my family and friends. I can't tell you how many friends I rarely talk to because they don't have children and they are into the bar scene still. Plus a lot of the "relationships" if you could call them that even my marriage none of my friends have ever gone through so it's like who to turn to. Anyway....I would like to applaud all of you fabulous women for just letting it out. Maybe one of these days I will be able to vent without breaking down lol.

Brittany - posted on 10/13/2009

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FOR ALL THE LADIES WHO WANNA BEAT THE **** OUT OF THEIR BABIES FATHERS... VISIT A COMMUNITY CALLED BABY DADDY TALK AND CREATE TOPICS AND CONVERSATIONS THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO DISCUSS WITH OTHER PEOPLE IN YOUR SITUATION!

LaKysha - posted on 10/13/2009

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Ok now i guess it is my turn. I am a mother of two, both different daddies. Neither of them in their childrens lives. My daughter is now 5 when she was born her father first asked me to have an abortion, then got mad when I didnt. Then he went off to school, got a degree while I had to drop out because I had a hard time leaving my daughter 2 weeks after I had her and being hours away from her. Plus I didnt drive at the time, so getting a ride home to see her was extremely hard. Now onto my son, he is now 14 months old, when I was pregnant with him my then boyfriend was happy, he was with me through the whole pregnancy, then when I started getting closer to my due date, he changed, there were plenty of times were we argued and he left for an hour or a day. A month after my son was born, one day he decides he will drop both of us off at my parents and thats what he did. I had no car, no job, and no place to live but my parents. (Just to let you know, before we got together I had all of this and was extremely happy with my life.) Two weeks after dropping us off, I see he is already at another girls house, he has already moved on with another girl. It is now 14 months, this girl and him have been together around a year, she is now 4 months pregnant with a little girl. He says he is going to marry her, I have known him for 6 years and gave my heart to him. We recently got into an argument because he wants me to forget about all we have been through pretty much like he did. But its hard. Am I stupid? Wow, it does feel a whole lot better to let this stuff off your heart.

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haha ya i did that for a while...then i thought..screw them...i could try to care about what they think...but i would be living a lie haha....plus if they wanna sink that low...go for it...i barely put anything about stupidhead anyways...i would much rather delete them but his sister is always smack talking me on there so ya. i dunno man...some ppl just need to GROW UP. i didn't leave...he did...get that through their thick retarded skulls and this would all be easier to deal with. lol meh..whatever.

Brandy - posted on 10/13/2009

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Quoting Kristan:

i am soo starting to hate facebook. my hubby's family likes to print of my statuses. they can go right ahead cause what can he use it for. he ABANDONED us. nothing i ever do will ever make that look ok for him. i am so sorry for your hubby, what a douche. i woulda backhanded him AND his gf for showing up. god some men just need to be lined up and stabbed in the eye then pissed on. ugh.



Hey ummm uyou do realize that you can change you security settings so that they can't see your status updates, you can block it so that just certain people are blocked or only friends can see it etc there are a lot of options for the security..... if his family members are friends with you on facebook block them from seeing your status!!!

Destiney - posted on 10/13/2009

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I really do agree! but instead of punching him I would like to kick him a few times in his you know what. Because I am the one out in here working and going to school and doing what I have to do for MY child. Not once did he called to see if she is okay or need anything. He feels that I can do it all on my own. I love when they say they want a family but can not even be a family man. I AM SO HAPPY I GOT THAT OFF MY CHEST!!! thanks for letting me vent

Jaeme - posted on 10/13/2009

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I do not love him anymore. We have been separated since our daughter was 1. We actually get along better now then we ever did together. Which also makes it hard and confusing when my daughter refuses to go with him cause it's not like him and I are fighting/bickering at eachother. I ask her why she doesn't want to go with him and she never has a straight answer, its always just that "daddy lies, daddy just wants to sleep, daddy doesn't take me to school on time". Which are all frustrating reasons but not reason enough to tell him that she is staying with me instead. I refuse to keep her from him but at the same time why should I force her (kicking and screaming) to go if she doesn't want to????

Janine - posted on 10/12/2009

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Lol....love the venting! I do this very often actually! As for punching partners......don't do it - get a punching bag instead and when you are frustrated.....punch that n think of him! It helps and no repercussions either!

Tonya - posted on 10/12/2009

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Quoting CARRIE:

GINNY-- that shit sucks. guys always go for the cheating shit. aint life grand? listen i had a protection order on mine. all i have to say to that is be smart DONT HIT HIM! DONT EVEN LOOK AT HIM! O YA AND COURT SUCKS A BIG ASS! HAVE FUN!LOL!

KRISTAN-- damn girl you need a chill pill! wait a minute, so do i! LOL! julia will be a ninja. i got her a sword to slice heads off. dummy was supposed to hang with the baby today and i said no. yea! 1 point for me


Good for you for saying no thats what they need to hear more often... They think the world owes them..

Ginny - posted on 10/12/2009

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Quoting CARRIE:

GINNY-- that shit sucks. guys always go for the cheating shit. aint life grand? listen i had a protection order on mine. all i have to say to that is be smart DONT HIT HIM! DONT EVEN LOOK AT HIM! O YA AND COURT SUCKS A BIG ASS! HAVE FUN!LOL!

KRISTAN-- damn girl you need a chill pill! wait a minute, so do i! LOL! julia will be a ninja. i got her a sword to slice heads off. dummy was supposed to hang with the baby today and i said no. yea! 1 point for me



Hey Carrie~ Just wanted to let you know I survived court with the douche bag today! I didn't say anything to him, I didn't even look at him. He dug himself a hole and lied to the judge, what a freaking idiot! So when everything was all said and done I was granted a 6mo protection order. Not the year I was hoping for but better than nothing. It at least keeps him outta my life through the rest of my pregnancy.



 



How is taking over the world and killing all the assholes coming along? :-)

Jessica - posted on 10/12/2009

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OMG.... thats so cool that you feel the same ways i feel i just cant see myself living like i m living anymore these jerks need to realize a good thing when they've got it i'm so tierd of my husband and his bull shit it's starting to make ma sick.....

CARRIE - posted on 10/12/2009

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to honest with you jaeme, 1 i love how you spell your name. 2 thats got to break your heart. i have only a 6 month old and im afraid of the same thing. or even my girl coming home saying daddy hates you mommy. wtf is there to do.im so scared myself. how have you been handling it? do u still love him?

Jaeme - posted on 10/12/2009

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I have one of the great ones that has the world convinced that he is the worlds greatest dad....(to someone else's kid). We have a 5 year old little girl who he see's every other weekend now. He used to get her twice a week and everyother weekend but that ended when he got a new girlfriend that had a 4 month old little girl. Now him and the girl are split up but for whatever reason he has her daughter (she lives with him, has her own room etc) but my daughter, his actual flesh and blood, gets to sleep on a blowup bed or where-ever he allows her to fall asleep when she is there. Yet he can't understand why she throws an all out fit when she is suppose to go with him!!! I have made it a point to never say anything bad about him to her or in front of her so that she would be able to form her own opinion of him...I just never thought in a million years she'd hate him at 5 years old. She has told me flat out "I love you but I don't love my daddy". I try and correct her and tell her "yes you do honey" but there is no changing her mind at this point. I have not dared tell him what she has said. I have only made small comments that maybe he should try to do more things that involve just him and her. I have no idea how to make him see that he is making his daughter hate him more and more everyday.

CARRIE - posted on 10/12/2009

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Quoting Candice:







Thats the difference between women and men. As a mum you just couldnt live without you r kids but blokes are just happy to pick up and leave and consider it another part of their life, as a mum your child is you life... men are stupid! ignorant pricks










careful here ladies...we may have met a SHITLOAD of crazy men between us...but there are some men on here going through the same crap we are with their ex WOMEN. nutjobs come in both sexes, as do bad parents. shocks the hell out of me that ANYONE can up and leave their kid, or, as in my case, go weeks without seeing her and not even text to see how she is (especially when he knows she's been sick) or not pay a DIME to support her,  but unfortunately, men aren't the only ones doing it.





CANDICE- I AGREE WITH YOU. WOMEN CAN BE THE SAME WAY. THIS IS OPEN TO ANY GENDER WHO WANTS TO VENT. WHEN I WENT TO JAIL, I WAS PREGNANT. IN THIS ONE CELL THERE WAS A YOUNG GIRL WHO PUT HER SON IN BOILING HOT WATER AND HE DIED. MENTAL PROBLEMS THERE. LOOK AT THE MOMS WHO CANT PUT DOWN THE CRACK PIPE. LOOK ALSO AT THE MOMS WHO LET THERE BOYFRENDS BEAT THERE KID. LIFE CAN BE SO CONFUSING. LET ME MAKE THIS STATEMENT;     ANYONE CAN VENT. THERE SHOULD BE NO JUDGEMENT HERE.

Candice - posted on 10/12/2009

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Thats the difference between women and men. As a mum you just couldnt live without you r kids but blokes are just happy to pick up and leave and consider it another part of their life, as a mum your child is you life... men are stupid! ignorant pricks






careful here ladies...we may have met a SHITLOAD of crazy men between us...but there are some men on here going through the same crap we are with their ex WOMEN. nutjobs come in both sexes, as do bad parents. shocks the hell out of me that ANYONE can up and leave their kid, or, as in my case, go weeks without seeing her and not even text to see how she is (especially when he knows she's been sick) or not pay a DIME to support her,  but unfortunately, men aren't the only ones doing it.

CARRIE - posted on 10/12/2009

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Quoting Kristy:

i left the father of my 3 kids 4 yrs ago. the dumbass hasnt seen his kids for three yrs now. He rings me when he has a girlfriend to make himself look good and make me look like a bitch when i tell him to take me to court if he wants to see the kids. not long ago he took me through the whole mediation crap and as he no longer lives near us he worked out to ring the kids once a week on a wed nite to talk to them he was ment to do it for 6 weeks then i told him he could see them the dumbass made one call to the kids. then about 2 weeks ago he rang to say that he was taking me to court and that he would get full custody of my kids cause i have a boyfriend, come on how stupid is he.



WHAT A JOKE! I LOVE TO SEE HIM TRY TO TAKE YOUR KIDS! PLEASE, YOUR THE ONE WHO HAS BEEN TAKING CARE OF THEM.

CARRIE - posted on 10/12/2009

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WHY CANT THEY JUST LEAVE US ALONE! JUST BECAUSE OUR CHILDREN LIVED IN THERE NUT SACK, THEY THINK THEY CAN CONTROL EVERY SITUATION.

Candice - posted on 10/12/2009

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a friend and i have a joke. Every time "the ex" pisses me off or does something STUPID she offers to get me a shovel to smack him over the head with...maybe it would jog his brain. lol. and no..i wouldn't really do it...but it's DAMN TEMPTING.

Heather - posted on 10/11/2009

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it really does feel good to have a place to vent with you girls... i dont know what i feel about my daughters father.. i dont feel like he has EVER appreciated me.. and the birth of our daughter katie was unexpected.. his responce was i dont want to be a dad... your getting an abortion...he was/ is an alcaholic.. and didnt support me or the thought of our family.. i worked all through my pregnency.. up to the day she was born.. while he sat on his ass drinking... i had a job as a dishwasher/cook.. real sucky job.. and i had to come home to piles of dishes.. and nothing to eat... because he was too lazy.. hed get mad .. the weekends i was off.. he beat me.. punched me... blamed it on me.. and i stuck with him.. why... because at the time i felt.. i didnt want to be the one breaking up our family....he left when she was born.. to work out of town... only to get fired a month later.. time after time.. so we ate shit.. made the best of it... never payed attention to me.. katie.. he was always to busy... two years later.. iv had it with him.. i went to my moms for a week... one day in .. i get a call that hes in jail... and that was it... no more of his SHIT!... he begs.. uses katie to get to me.. threatens to take me to court...and take her... and at times... i feel guilty... am i crazy.. just last week she was going to his house to spend the night.. all day he didnt call.. i called him.. he was drinking!!!! "i only had two beers" i told him i wanted him to stay away from us.. didnt talk to him a week... now here i am.... letting him come see her tomorrow... ithink.. i hate him... i wish he would dissapear..... now hes getting socked child support.. and since im not working.. and barely getting by... he uses it against me.. i hope to god some good look comes my way.. because lord... we really need it

Brittany - posted on 10/11/2009

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i just ended my relationship with my daughters dad. we were high school sweethearts but then he started bs around i i cant take that. he said when he is ready we will work things out but i dont want to. we were together 2 and 1/2 years

Kristy - posted on 10/11/2009

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i left the father of my 3 kids 4 yrs ago. the dumbass hasnt seen his kids for three yrs now. He rings me when he has a girlfriend to make himself look good and make me look like a bitch when i tell him to take me to court if he wants to see the kids. not long ago he took me through the whole mediation crap and as he no longer lives near us he worked out to ring the kids once a week on a wed nite to talk to them he was ment to do it for 6 weeks then i told him he could see them the dumbass made one call to the kids. then about 2 weeks ago he rang to say that he was taking me to court and that he would get full custody of my kids cause i have a boyfriend, come on how stupid is he.

Marilyn - posted on 10/11/2009

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Quoting CARRIE:

I NEED TO VENT! U? NO HOLDING BACK

we are all here for advice and encouraging words. i find this site very helpful. but there are times when we get so angry, upset, and confused WE NEED TO VENT. almost like a journal. i know i can get so angry at my daughters father that it would end up with assult charges. but i could totally punch him in the mouth with the ignorant crap that comes out of it. if he was such a man, then he should take a punch like one. ok, instead of a punch, maybe a bitch slap cause thats what hes acting like. he is so arrogant, i actually read online how to deal with know it alls. its useful. now i know i will punch him with kindness. oooooooooo it killed him last nite. as i leave you all to vent about anything, I STILL COULD PUNCH HIM SOMETIMES. WOW! I FEEL BETTER NOW!


I know how you feel, and I did the treat'em with kindness and it through him, because he was trying to push my buttons and almost succeeded but I was strong and was sugary sweet, but I still wanted to punch, cut or shoot his a-- but I don't have a gun, lol... Stay strong and it will work out for you...

Ginny - posted on 10/11/2009

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Quoting CARRIE:

HEY GINNY, NO OFFENCE BUT THE HELL KIND OF NAME IS GINNY?LOL! JK



LOL Carrie!! Just think Gin and Tonic!!

CARRIE - posted on 10/11/2009

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i have read everyone of these and seriously our dummies are missing out. i have to tell you guys this: A FRIEND OF MINE TOLD ME ITS GOING TO BE OK. STOP RIGHT THERE, I THOUGHT. WHY DOES EVERYONE SAY THAT SHIT. WHEN WILL IT BE BETTER. AND HOW DO THEY KNOW. well sitting for a sec i realized if im alive and my child is healthy it is alright. but why cant we still have that family we want?



KIM- I DID LAUNDRY TOO.



ANYWAYS STILL HATE HIM AND LOVE HIM. WHAT A DUMMY HE IS

Kimberly - posted on 10/11/2009

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I'm a newcomer to this. I have to agree with you, we ALL have to VENT sometime

The arrogance doesn't get better. My childrens father definitely is the same way. He can tell me how to be a mother and the 'right" things that I need to say to the kids. Can't finish thought, it's Sunday- Hair and laundry day!

Tansy - posted on 10/11/2009

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Quoting Kristan:

also..who the hell marries someone and then as soon as the kid is born takes off!!!!!! i had everything i ever dreamed of and he can't handle it? screw him. i am taking EVERYTHING he is going to pay for the rest of his natural life with what im going to do!!!! i refuse to be ANOTHER statistic. thats just not me. im not going down without a fight thats for sure. god i jsut want to scream.


Thats the difference between women and men. As a mum you just couldnt live without you r kids but blokes are just happy to pick up and leave and consider it another part of their life, as a mum your child is you life... men are stupid! ignorant pricks

Tansy - posted on 10/11/2009

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My boys da dis good with them but he actually drives me crazy! we are not together and i have twin boys 11 months and i work so sometime i seriously needa break, he has them one night a week which i work so i havnt seen a weekend since they wer born! He had the nerve to say to me the other week when he couldnt have them becasue he was going out! that "Surely he deserves a weekend?"...ERM NOOO You dont you wa**er You are a father and even if we wer together he would not get a weekend. Besides he gets the friday night out! and i know he goes out on a tuesday and thursday too! he is always in new clothes and splashing his cash which i dont f**kin get any of! I had totally ran out of baby milk the other night and i rang him to see if he could grab me some and he was so wasted and some stupid little girl answered his phone in some club! and i thought great! what if something was wrong with the boys and i needed you what help would you be then? He is useless if he is out drinkin all the time! Another thing is he comes over a cupple nights a week to help me give them their dinner get them in the bath and bed, and i would love to leave him to it but he gets all arsy and says really stupid things like.."well are you not gonne help me with them in the bath then, or do you expect me to do them both on my own?"...thats what i have to do every day. I t also annoys me that he is always with his friends when he has the boys! i Know his friends are nice and decent but i just wish he woul do it on his on for a change! there is so much more crap but i would have to tell you all my life story to go into it!

Ginny - posted on 10/11/2009

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Quoting CARRIE:

GINNY-- that shit sucks. guys always go for the cheating shit. aint life grand? listen i had a protection order on mine. all i have to say to that is be smart DONT HIT HIM! DONT EVEN LOOK AT HIM! O YA AND COURT SUCKS A BIG ASS! HAVE FUN!LOL!

KRISTAN-- damn girl you need a chill pill! wait a minute, so do i! LOL! julia will be a ninja. i got her a sword to slice heads off. dummy was supposed to hang with the baby today and i said no. yea! 1 point for me



CARRIE~ yes it does suck and I don't understand why they always go for the cheating thing. Oh wait probably because they are the ones who are doing the cheating! Yes life is grand :-) Thanks for the adivce, I'm trying to be the bigger person where all this is concerned and it's really hard because all I want to do is back my car over him and then do it again just to make sure he's nice and squished, like the little bug that he is. Don't worry I won't hit him, and I'll make it a point to sit as far away from him and to make sure someone is sitting beside me so I can turn the opposite way from where he is. Ahhh we're soooo making a party out of court tomorrow!! :-) I'll let you know how it goes!!

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haha ya i probly do need a chill pill...you know where i can get any? haha im just so upset that they say they want to see him but when it comes down to going through with it they are nowhere to be found...my hubby said he wanted to see him too but i haven't gotten a hold of him in over 2 months so ya. im just upset not for me but for scott....he is soo innocent and did nothing to deserve this. he is amazing and they would be so lucky to know him you know? and good on you for saying no haha i would so do the same thing :)

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GINNY-- that shit sucks. guys always go for the cheating shit. aint life grand? listen i had a protection order on mine. all i have to say to that is be smart DONT HIT HIM! DONT EVEN LOOK AT HIM! O YA AND COURT SUCKS A BIG ASS! HAVE FUN!LOL!



KRISTAN-- damn girl you need a chill pill! wait a minute, so do i! LOL! julia will be a ninja. i got her a sword to slice heads off. dummy was supposed to hang with the baby today and i said no. yea! 1 point for me

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Quoting CARRIE:

OK. I FIGURED IT OUT ALL OF US BITCHES, HOES, SLUTS AND BAD MOMS(AS THE DUMMIES WOULD CALL US) NEED TO GET TOGETHER AND HAVE ONE BIG PARTY. KRISTAN AND I ARE GOING TO TAKE OVER THE WORLD. WE NEED HELP THOUGH. SHE IS SUPERWOMEN SO WE CAN JUST HITCH A FLIGHT WITH HER. ME, IM CATWOMEN SO I CAN CLIMB WALLS AND SCRATCH THERE EYES OUT. PICK A SUPER HERO AND WE WILL BEGIN OUR JOURNEY.



Carrie I am sooo in!!! :-) You girls are awesome and made my day!

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Quoting Amber:

ok so im about to get in the car and take the 7hr drive to new orleans to start our new life....im sooo excited.....im scared though too....once "asshole" finds out we actually moved he is going to flip out (he has some mental issues) im scared of what he might do but hopefully he wont find out where im at.....a g/f of mine said that after 6 months im considered a resident there and so if he does find me after that time then he would have to come to new orleans to even be able to take me to court for any rights....i mean we havent even had a dna test done!!....that shows how lazy he is....i really hope he just gives up....i know ill remarry one day and my husband could adopt him....im sorry but i just think my son is better off w/o his "dad" and its not b/c i hate him its strictly b/c of how he is with my son....well wish me luck ya'll and hope my sons dad doesnt find us anytime soon!!!!!





be careful if he can't find you he can post an article in the newspaper and win full custody then you could be charged with kidnapping. Have someone look in the part where they show notifications, like foreclores and such.. He only have to keep it posted I think for 60 days. I wish you the best and hope it work out for you... From the sounds of it moving is best. I know it was for me and the kids.



 



 



                          AMBER,AMBER,AMBER.  i dont know where to begin. slow your mind down for a minute and start slowly thinking about what u are doing.  i have to be honest here. like the beginning said, NO HOLDING BACK!   please take this the right way.



                        why are you running away? what is there to run from? why not tell him? why need a dna test? are you not sure hes the father? why even think about marrige?



you are so angry right now, i do believe you are not thinking properly.  i promise u girl im no expert but theres more to this story. your right we are here to let it go, but damn.  whats really going on in your life? sounds like he is a douch. i also know that us women havent been perfect either. i lnow i did some f....d up stuff,  but i was honest about it. read AMYS ABOUT DRUGS AND HER LIFE. SHE WAS STRAIGHT UP. EXAMPLE; HAD I A DRUG PROBLEM AND AN ABORTION





 

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oooh and carrie...my boy will be a mixture of the joker, batman, and spiderman....jsut cause hes awesome! haha what'll your girl be?? oh and i get to drive the wicked sweet batmobile hahahahha

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So glad to be able to vent and know that I'm not the only one who needs to! So I'm 17wks pregnant and have been dealing with a pos ex boyfriend. When I found out he was happy, then told his friends and accused me of cheating on him while I was on vacation with friends in Vegas. Ok I'm not nor have I ever been a cheater. Long story short 1 week he told me to get an abortion the next he told me he wanted 50/50 custody and then (bog surprise) he told me again to get an abortion and that he would pay for it. I told him where he could shove it and decided that I'm going to make a great single mom. Well he stalked me to the point of threatening my life. I've had to get a temp protection order and I have court tomorrow for a full protection order. My best friend is going to court with me along with my mom and another friends mom. We're just wondering if we'll get the joy of watching him come face to face with the judge and reality. You don't "F" with a pregnant woman! Ahhhh I fell so much better now! :-) Thanks!!

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hahaha ya. thats just what they are. OK so my hubby's mom had said she wanted to be in my sons life and now she is in the area so i facebooked her AND left msg on her cell to invite her to see scott and NO REPLY. apparently being a douche runs in the family :( no wonder he decided to not come around ITS ALL HER!!!! fuck he needs to grow some balls....my 2 month old son has more balls then he does!!!! all his family does is spy on me on facebook and LIE about everything!!! she asked me what stuff he stole from me and whatnot so she could bring them and then doesnt have the decensy to answer back when i tell her. he needs to get away from his bitch of a mother so that he can grow up and be a father!!! and whats horrible is that this same thing happened to her with my husbands dad and shes turning around and acting like this!!!! my god...i am soooo mad. AGAIN!!!. will this ever end? thats it...they can just stay the fuck away. im getting my divorce...and im changing me and my sons last name to my moms maiden name. i am DONE trying to fight for my son to know his other family. HE IS A WHOLE PACKAGE DEAL you cannot just want to see him when hes walking and talking...you want to know him you have to know him when he can't do that stuff too. if they can't see just how amazing he is then fine. he doesn't need them. oooh ooh ooh i am soooo mad. fuck them. fuck them all to hell.

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