I really need some help .Please

Carmen - posted on 12/17/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Hi.i have a 7 yr old daughter a 3yr old son with down syndrome and congenital heart failure and a 10 yr old daughter whom due to a heart transplant gone wrong is left unable to do anything on her own anymore I feel so bad whn my 7 yr old gave me their list for Santa and said we all been extra good this year mommy u can ask santa.she does all the speaking for her big sis cause she said her sister taught her everything before she got sick .Lol they are sweet kids .My son can't speak but he uses sign language to get the point across.these kids are my life line all I got in this world.i feel like crap all money goes toward bills and food.and whn I do get extra money there comes the back bills I owe.i tried every possible organization in my town they have no room to help my family.There's a few that would've helped if I lived in Thier district they said.I try to make a page myself and ask for donations used toys homemade toys cloth used is fine anything will be helpful .If anyone knows any place or person who's willing to help out please contact me my name is Carmen Smith. .Email is carmensmith516@gmail com.i swear any help will be gratefully appreciated.thank you.p.s. I know I should put my info but I'm truly desperate to get help for my lil bundles of joy.im sorry anyone if u find this offensive.im just tryin to get help .Sorry

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Ev - posted on 12/17/2016

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First, this is an international web site and you should not post personal information because anyone can use it and get you into a lot of issues you do not need.

Second, as for getting help for this time of year, you should ask the Salvation Army, local Churches, and other organizations that can help you. If there is a sign up time by which you should have applied for this help and it has passed, I am not sure what can be done. Do you not have any family that can help you?

Third, it is also solicitation asking for donations here.

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Carmen - posted on 12/18/2016

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I wasn't referring to u when I said that .U were very helpful and I appreciate u taking the time out to talk to me and give me some helpful insight on were to go /look for help.again thank u your help was greatly appreciated. God bless

Carmen - posted on 12/18/2016

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I wasn't referring to u when I said that .U were very helpful and I appreciate u taking the time out to talk to me and give me some helpful insight on were to go /look for help.again thank u your help was greatly appreciated. God bless

Carmen - posted on 12/18/2016

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I wasn't referring to u when I said that .U were very helpful and I appreciate u taking the time out to talk to me and give me some helpful insight on were to go /look for help.again thank u your help was greatly appreciated. God bless

Ev - posted on 12/18/2016

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I have been in your shoes to a certain extent. I was going paycheck to paycheck and asked for help a lot and got help I did not ask for because it came as a surprise.

We can not know your circumstances and so I asked about family or others you could turn to for help. I was not judging you at all. Organizations do have limits on what they can do and how many they can help. People flock to them as soon as they know that door is open and those slots are taken fast. You just have to be ahead of the game I guess. It is hard at this time of the year for a lot of people.

Again this is international and not just a web site that is dedicated to just a certain place in the world. It is also considered solicitation by asking for things from people as per the rules here. I was just letting you know that it is considered that.

Again, your best bet is to ask around your area for help. Food bank, Salvation Army or its equivalent, or other places that offer help. But if it was for things like the Angel Tree or Shop with a Cop---you have to sign up as early as possible for those things. Also the school your children go to should have something set up to help families.

Carmen - posted on 12/18/2016

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First I don't have anyone .Secondly I tried to sign up when I was told to and the organization said they were not taking anyone else because they are limited this year.lsst but not least im just tryin to get help for my children .I'm not up here selling anything ,I'm just asking to get pointed in a direction that maybe able to help.im taking my info off now cause as what u said I'd true.but to everyone please don't judge me cause you all don't know me nor walked a day in my shoes.Thanks for your reply it's appreciated god bless you.

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