i want to kill my child help...

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Robin - posted on 12/09/2012

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You guys do not have a clue. I want to kill my son! Yes I want this mom to get help but let's be real there is no real help anymore. There is no help because there is no money in our agencies to help. Thank you all who keeps the tax cut stuff going. You have distroyed the safety net for people with mental illness. So to you who say just chill and be patient ha ha. The only treatment I have been able to find for my 29 year old son is a day program that offers some group therapy. For me it's just a baby sitting service. Just a note my son is mentally ill, autistic, and mildly retarded with rage issues. He is 6' and 240 lbs. He is mean. Oh did I mention that for the last 4 years I have been fighting Cancer which includes 5 surgeries and over 40 chemo treatments. My family has basicaly drifted away because of his behavior. I am in fear of my own safety. So yes I want him dead or gone. I have even thought about putting him out on the street in an urban not safe area of a major city near me and just let the streets take care of him. He will piss off the wrong urban person with a gun and he will be dead.

Hannah - posted on 12/06/2009

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i sugest you go to your doctor and get some help. he can suscribe some anti-depresants and maybe counceling.....but whatever u do get some help dont be afraid to do that!

Mustak - posted on 06/21/2014

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I am not a father but I love kids and if u r trying to kill ur child then I should say that u dont love gods gift. ur child is gifted by god and if u kill ur child god must get unhappy. in this situation I just suggests that send ur child to any NGO to look after them. or else try to contact futurehope NGO where I brought up. Google futurehope u will feels better to send ur child there. gud luck

Donna - posted on 06/10/2013

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Robin,

I'm so sorry, I don't know what to say, other than I feel deeply for you, and I agree that it is absolutely criminal what has been done to the social services. Politicians are horrible bullies, who prey on those who cannot defend themselves. I pray your situation improves.

Regards,
Donna

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Aj - posted on 06/20/2014

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this is Teresa's daughter, i just want to say even if i'm not a mom i have a somewhat same feeling towards my brother and sister. i'm 13 and my sis is 4 my brother is 2 no one is in between. being a single mom has to be hard and i just want to say kudos to you for being so strong and knowing that these are just feelings of frustration and anger not actual hate towards your son. after i almost put my sister in the hospital for abuse, my doctor gave me anti depression meds and LOTS of counselling. from now on it's going to be an uphill battle, you WILL fall and trip, but the love you are going to feel for your son and have been feeling will just get stronger. all i can say now is good luck.

Anne-Marie - posted on 05/06/2014

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to huga santa you shit me something bad ppl like u r y ppl wana kill or hurt ppl u r the stupid bitch. she dont waana hurt her child thats clear cos she came on here 4 help. I she was to want to kill for real she wouldn't publish would she u daft bitch.ppl like u push ppl over the edge or make them even more depressed and agitated.and same gos to any1 who wrote nasty stuff. shame on u all. get a grip get some love and compassion in ur f'd up lives.

Vanessa - posted on 12/11/2012

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Dont say things like that.

You need help. Children are frustrating at times but wow that's harsh

Ivy - posted on 12/10/2012

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Robin,

I don't have the same situation, but you have described it well--and I can see why you say that. With all of the crap and lack of finding help for your son, I can see why you are so frustrated and angry.

I hope you don't seriously consider it though, because just from the fact that you are so ANGRY that you can not get help, I can tell you must really love your son. You have clearly tried very hard, and yes, the world sucks in many ways. I am sorry for your pain. I wish I could help you.

I personally don't know how you have managed for so long, especially with cancer.

For YOUR sake, try to find something to take your mind off everything for a few moments to be happy for just a little while--and RELISH it.

I don't know anything else to say.

I really wish I could help you...

If you think of anything, let me know. Just respond to the post--seriously.

Anna - posted on 12/07/2009

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I think alot of mum's feel this way at times you are not alone, but i do suggest you talk to someone. When you are alone and you feel you just can't cope put you baby somewhere safe like their cot close the door and take time out for a moment. Your baby may cry but you can rest assured they are safe, when you feel back in control of yourself you can then go back in to them. This stage does pass and i speak from experience. It took a while before i could admit i needed help and eventually agreed to go on antidepressants. This does NOT make you a failure. I wish you all the very best. Take care of yourself.

Vonshanita - posted on 12/06/2009

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This is the time you call on your real friends to take your child for a couple of hours to give you some time to think as to why you feel this way.....Is your child acting up or you going thru a rough time. All parents don't want to be parents when the child is acting out but you have got to get past that....the child learns from you...You are that child's everything. If you really need help that is what we are for make some play dates with some of the moms in this network....If you need some time to think to clear your head let me know.....

Rochele - posted on 12/06/2009

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if ur a single mum and have ur baby around u all the time, maybe u should ask ur friends n family to take ur baby over night so that u can get the rest u need n then it might not be so hard for u

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