Amber - posted on 02/02/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
Hey, well my baby is 4 months old. Me and my partner have been living together since I was 4 months pregnant I was only 17 at the time. As soon as we moved in together I wanted to leave and find somewhere else on my own, I was counting down until I was 18 so I could get my own place because he is so lazy, I was getting up at 5am getting ready for work and cleaning up the mess he'd left from the night before and then i'd leave at 6 to get to work for 7. My boyfriend would be at home until 11 sometime 12 and then start work when i'g get home at 4 the flat would be a mess, so i'd clean up again and cook dinner for when he was due home. Then once he'd finished the plate would just be left on the side for me to once again clean up. When my baby was a week old I spoke to him about it because I just couldnt take it anymore and he said he would change, he didnt. I tried again when he was 2 months again nothing has changed although i'm not working at the moment our baby is a 24/7 job he doesnt help with him or the cleaning, i get really lonely when he's at work but I hate it when hes here too. I want to leave so much I'm going to talk to him tonight, I just can't handle it anymore. But am I just going to feel more lonely?
I don't even know what i'm going to say to him to night, I know he wont leave i'll have to be the one to find somewhere to live.
He also has a 6 year old from a previous relationship he comes round most weekend but when he's here I feel like i'm left to look after him aswell"
Please help! I don't know what to say to let him no it is over and I can't do it anymore