Lori` - posted on 10/01/2009 ( 321 moms have responded )
we were not together when i first found out. he denied her off the back, but after a while he started to claim her. he said he was just scared this is his first child and we are both young. we are nineteen and both sophomores in college. during the summer we were workin it out and planning our future until we had a fallen out where we didnt speak for two months. during this time he started denying her again. by august we were speakin again and on good terms to the point where we were discussing living arrangements and possibly being together. by the end of august we got into an arguement over our daughters name being posted on my facebook. we havent spoke since than, i have sent him numerous facebook messages, text, and even tried calling, all with no success. but he still claims his child, as far as i know, and he recently told a friend of mine he would be there when my daughter is born and from there on out, but for now he is not speaking to me. I understand kinda because we have been through a lot personally. He recently got saved, during the summer, right before we started speaking in august. he is definately a better person, so changed but we still dont speak. as far as i know he is completely a new person, and cherishes his relationship with god which im not knocking i just wanted to know after all this should i still give her his last name? during the times we were speakin he made it clear that he wanted her to have his last name.