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Is it wrong if she calls him daddy??

Ashlynn - posted on 01/14/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I left my babies father when i was 3 months pregnant he didn't want to step and and be an adult. I got with fiance two months before she was born. He was in the birthing room and is the one who cut her cord, because her father didn't make it on time. Her real father wants to be in her life but as only since her twice and she is 5 1/2 months he doesn't call to see how she is doing. well my fiance does everything with her he feeds her gives her baths, plays with her and is there for her. Now i don't try to keep her from her real father infact i would love for her to know him but he won't come around. well she is just now learning how to say mama and dada. is it wrong for her to call my fiance daddy?

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Ashlynn - posted on 01/14/2010

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well thats wat i thought my fiance loves her more than anything but some of my friends think its wrong because we are not married yet and if something happened then she would be hurt but i said even if things didn't work out for me and him i wouldn't keep her from him if they wanted to see each other

Brittany - posted on 01/14/2010

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I dont think that it is wrong.. My son calls my boyfriend daddy. He doesnt have a problem with it and neither do i. Ur fiance is the first man that your daughter saw and she considers him her father beacuse he has been there for her. Dont take that away from her cuz you feel bad. If the actual father has a problem with it then he shoud step up and be a man and take care of his daughter

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