Natalie - posted on 06/14/2009 ( 52 moms have responded )
I have raised my son on my own and he is going on four now! So I have no idea how it is to have the father in the child's life! Well I ended up pregnant for a guy that I wasnt with but was getting to know should I say! (They tell you to wrap it up and then it breaks!) Well together we made the choice that I wasnt going to keep the child if I did fall pregnant! But I couldnt do it! I dont believe in abortion! He wants to be a part of this child life and I have no problem with that cause we do remain friends! But he wants me to give my child his last name! So he can feel like the child has a part of him! Seeing how it is his first child! I dont know the legal issues on that and wonder if anyone has experience with it! I really need to know all the pros and cons! I have my worrries cause we are not together so I dont want it to back fire on me later on!