Tiffany - posted on 06/21/2010 ( 16 moms have responded )
I have a 19 month old and a 3 week old they have different fathers. My 19 month old son dad showed up in his life at 7 months of age and his dad only shows up in my son life when is family pushes him to come see him and thats about every 3 to 4 months. i had to ask the fathers family stop calling him dad in front of my son because all it was doing was confusing him. i don't know if i should tell the father that if he want to be in my sons life thats he has to be around more or just get out of his life? Now the next part I have a 3 week old daughter and her father hasn't even come to meet her and everytime i talk him he says " as bad as it sound I don't have the time to come see her " as of right now he has no job and isn't doing anything! so i don't know if just tell him to get involed or just don't bother coming around? I just want my kids to know their dads. I don't want there money or them i just want my kids it know what it like to have a father in there life that want to be there and not because they have to pay support!!!