Sterling - posted on 07/13/2009 ( 9 moms have responded )
My ex and I have joint Custody, but I am the primary Custodian. Right now he sees the kids every other weekend and none at all during week, though he is suposed to see them one evening ever week. He says because of his work schedule that he cant take them out, or visit at his place. He asked me if he could come by my house and see them for 2hrs or less one evening a week. I dont really want him in my home and feel like it's just an excuse to get close to me, even though he says I am putting my needs first and not the kids needs!
What do you guy's think? Should I let him come over to see our kids or tell him that I dont care if his work schedule doesnt allow for his weekly visit. He says he feels cut off from kids b/c he only gets to see them every other weekend. Again how is this my problem? Any advice? Thanks!