Letting go and being a single mom

Linky - posted on 10/18/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )

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Some time last year i got in an unhealthy relationship, when i finally let go, i found out i was pregnant,
Me and my ex never got along and had no support from him while i was pregnant, it was the hardest time of my life, i needed him but he was never there for me, during my pregnancy i was hoping we would fix things an get back together, but his not ready to be a father, i finally let go him and my baby is 3 months old now, i am happier now an looking forward to life.

I always thought it would hurt to be without him, but it actually doesn't.

I don't need advise, i just wanted to share my story.

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Linky - posted on 10/24/2016

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Indeed, holding a grudge is just going to turn me into a depressed person, so i choose to let go and be happy.

Thank you so much, this is encouraging.

Mercedes - posted on 10/19/2016

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Congratulations on your baby, they're a great blessing, a real gift from above. I'm glad you're sound like you're getting stronger, happier each day, ready to tackle the future with your baby. It takes great resolute and wisdom to walk away from and unhealthy relationship, I commend you for that! You're a tough mama, I'll be praying for God's strength in your future.

Suzy - posted on 10/18/2016

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I am so happy that you are making it on your own and that you and your baby are doing well! Outstanding job on your part. Keep up the great work. You are doing the right thing for yourself and your child.

Suzy

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Mercedes - posted on 10/21/2016

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You're wise to realize that forgiving him is the next step. I heard someone say once that choosing not to forgive or holding a grudge is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. It takes willingness and time to forgive but with God's help, you'll be able to do it and come out free and strong. God bless you.

Linky - posted on 10/20/2016

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@Mercedes Thank you so much, God is great, time heals, my next step is forgiving him and letting go of my anger cos i am still a bit angry at everything he did to me.

Linky - posted on 10/19/2016

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Thank you so much Suzy,
I just let go this weekend, i am happy. i hope i make it on my own going forward.

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