life being controled, please id like advise.

Shayla - posted on 04/23/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Im 32 i have 3 kids. I just went through a seperation. I literally packed our clothes and had my mom come get us. My ex took the car back..it was in his name...so i have nothing. When i went back to pick things up...he sold everything we had and moved to colorado. My kids are not his...but this ruined my life and i have to start over with nothing not even a vehicle. So im at my moms. Its a gated community. If i leave and try to.come back the security guard who is there 24/7 will call her for permission to let me in. She says im not aloud to leave, no friends, no working. So i sit here with my son. Because i dont have a car she takes them to school picks them up, takes them to volleyball, softball but will not allow me to go with them. Im basically being held hostage. If i keave even for the day or dinner she will not let me back in and i cant risk that because of my kids, but doing this is not going to improve my life at all. Ill never be able to get back on track. I want to take my kids and run, but i have no where to run and no family to help. No car to run. i found out she even called their dr office and acted like me and gave them her number so that they no longer called me, she did the same thing to their school. The worst part is she treats my oldest like she walks on water, she treats my.middle daughter so mean so hateful like she did me growing up. We are supposed to be moving because she bought a new house in the country, she is giving the kids bedrooms but said i had to stay in the back.building in the back yard seperate. Its a one room building. I have to save my kids and run but i dont know where to start si.ce i have no car now and she wont allow me access to work to buy a car...please please please help

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Kareln - posted on 04/29/2013

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you need to get away from your mum l know as l have spent my life doing just that my mum is a control freak and took my kids slowly away by buying them everything they wanted .i said no off to nan they went instead of backing me up she over road me as if l didnt matter. you have your voice ask for help from people that dont know your mum PLEASE get away before its too late , lve lost my 2 sons to my mum and now shes trying to get my daughter wont happen she has special needs and mum cant cope with her goodluck you can do it be strong and take your babies and run and dont look back l moved 4 hours away and lm at peace as l control my destiny not some sad woman that likes to dominate and give nothing back >

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