CYNTHIA - posted on 10/06/2011 ( 13 moms have responded )
Hi, Im writing because I just dont know what to do. I am a single mommy and I have zero interactions with my daughter's father. His mother tries to be active in our life when someone ask about me and my daughter or she is going somewhere and want to show my daughter off. So i agreed to an every other weekend with the grandma. She talks to me like I have no say so over my daughter and she always have attitude. My daughter went over one weekend and when she returned home she said she didn't want to go back. So now when its time for my daughter to go over, she cries excessively and would not go near the grandma. So now I dont force her to go. If she say no I dont make her. The grandma seems to be upset that I give my daughter a choice in where she goes. Once she told me I need to stop being her friend and be her parent. Its coments like this that make me not want to deal with her. Its hard enough doing it on my own, I dont need any negative energy from anyone. What should I do????