Cassandra - posted on 09/20/2010 ( 70 moms have responded )
I have partial custody of my two children Jimmy (10) and Jevanah (9) so they come visit me every other weekend. About two years ago, my boyfriend (who has been with me for 8 years) and I had been arguing quite a bit about money and my children sensed my depression. My little girl assumed I was upset because of my boyfriend and that weekend she told my aunt that my boyfirend had touched her down there. The next time she came to visit, I talked the alone to get details and it wasn't but 3 minutes into the conversation when she admitted to making the story up to get him into trouble. I explained the her that an accusation like that could not only get him into trouble, but myself too. Well, that was when she was 7. Now she is almost ten. I had them this weekend and my aunt called me this morning to let me know that Jevanah is now saying that my boyfriend squeezed her boobs intentionally at least three time. My boyfirend works outside 48-60 hours a week. On the weekend I give him the chance to rest and he is in his TV room relaxing most of the weekend and the kids are with me. In the evening we do something together as a family. In other words, my daughter and him are rarely alone together. In fact, when he noticed that she has started wearing a bra, he told me he would be more careful with her so she does feel awkward. He has two neices that love him very much. Just recently, Jevanah told my aunt that she did not want to come see my any more because I do not love her, and now she is telling my aunt this. I really do not want to turn my back on her especially at these preteen years, but I almost sure she is lying again. I strive to give here as much attention as I can, and she is hardly unloved and has almost anything a girl could want or need. Why is she doing this to me? HELP!!!!