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My daughters father is using his disablement to not pay, and I'm left to nothing. What do I do when the courts doesn't do anything?

Lanea - posted on 09/17/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Maddie's father is using medical paper work to not work, but he recently left disability pay. He is using some way of the system to not pay child support. The state did not suspend his license cause he needs to get to apts and to take care of his child. He is recovered from his problem. he is gaining weight a sign on health. im a med major, im not stupid! The thing that sucks is I know he is lying about half of the health crap, i have friends telling me oh i saw him her and there, doing this and that. POINT IS: THE State has my case on hold cause he has no means of paying. but he wont work cause he 'cant', but if you cant work then why get off disability?!?!?! What can I do???



I'm debating to sue him for full custody and no visitation (cause he is a verbal abuser in my face and follows me places)

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Holly - posted on 09/18/2012

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That’s exactly what you need to do, and no disrespect towards anyone disabled and going thru drug treatment, or whatever, and I am really not sure exactly what you’re talking about with your Xs health issue, but half those messed up ass holes, are playing the system and playing us!! I was going to marry a man with bipolar, and he got disability, etc etc, I thought to myself while dating him, as long as he takes his meds he is fine, besides I never had one problem out of him, not one…until I moved in!! and that’s when the shit hit the fan, by the end of 3 long months of pure devouring hell, I got the hell out of doge…..just because he was disabled did not mean he couldn’t be mean to my children, myself and my family dog…..he called my little girl the B word, and it took everything I had not to give him a few extra pills at bed time, since I was his nurse, maid, cook, wife, sex slave, verbal punching bag, beer getter, and everything else…….sue the shit out of him!! And you report his ass, video tape him, get written statements, get all your evidence tog and get an attorney!!

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