Heather - posted on 11/25/2011 ( 15 moms have responded )
He used to work and be great but then he started taking drugs, lost his job, steals from me and the kids and then last night he hit me while i am pregnant right in front of my kids. I am the only one who works and i know it will be tough but I can financially support myself and kids. I also just found out that he has been getting a welfare cheque to his moms house in his name and yet he pays no bills or anything in two years. Our children are 14, 12, 7, 4, 2 and one due in March. He hangs out at a methadone clinic all morning and sleeps all day at our house. I think I would be way better off single, but I do not know if leaving my kids father makes me selfish.