Sara - posted on 02/10/2010 ( 19 moms have responded )
Hi, so i have an issue. Its kind of a long story.. how can i put this. Im not with the father of my 4 month old child, and i wasn't with him through out my entire pregnancy. Now he has a gf, which is fine, people move on. He has only seen our son a hand full of times, and i was the one who made it happen ( phone calls, emails ) and let it be known, that not ONCE was i making plans with him, but i was talking to his GIRLFRIEND. And each visit, i was there with him, my son and again, his GF. Last month i got into a bit of an argument with her because i decided that i didnt want to speak to my sons father through her, and i wanted to talk to him! i didnt think this was a big deal. I asked that they come to my house and watch him for a couple hours while i did groceries, they didnt want that, they wanted me to drop him off at their house. I wasnt about to do that. Keep in mind they both smoke pot, and she has 2 kids of her own which she doesnt have custody of. Any ways, i ended up having to block both of them on facebook, as well as a friend because of the constant harassment. Well, toight she messaged me on msn, i totaly forgot i even had her on there, so i blocked her. she then continued to email me. i responded telling her (numerous times) "if he wants to see his son, HE can call me" .. now, what should i do? why won't HE talk to me? should i even let him see his son? what should i do about the gf situation? please.. i need some advice!