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New Father

Ipunk - posted on 09/08/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )

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after I'm divorce ... my kids this like really need figure a man. sometime when I picke them up frm the school in the car they always asking me.... Mom please... I want have a new Papa coz all my friends have a father and very Happy, come on find a father for us....
oh my God... that really make me feel guilty to them... But as we know is not that easy to found some one that really like we want and we like.... so up sad if manytime they asking me like that...
what should I do.... bucause I'm asian and my exs is asian too. and in my kids school some kids the parents are Mix western and asia.... so my kids want me to found western Father.... hufft...
I'll try.... But is not that easy with all different culture...
I wish one day I can get the Right Man like they want....

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Leslie - posted on 09/08/2009

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i got divorced in january. my x only sees Adin every other wkend and never calls, but it is important to remember that u cant let ur kids get attached to just anyone u need to b sure it is gonna work out with u first b4 u introduce him to ur kids bcuz in the end if he doesnt stick around for u he wont stick around for ur kids. i have been seeing my bf for about two mths now. he is awsome with my son but i am still very cautious about how much i let him b involve with him bcuz i would hate for my son to get attached and it not wrk out. just remember if the guy ur seeing cant make u happy he wont b able to make ur kids happy. good luck.

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