Amy - posted on 01/09/2011 ( 26 moms have responded )
The short version... I've known my sons father almost all my life ( we've not always been in contact all that time) and when I ran into him after a
Good few years, we had a wirl wind 3 months together where we decided we'd do ivf ( pco suffer) for a baby and get married ect..I arrived home from a work trip leaving him behind. I then find out a week later I was pregnant he took it well over the phone for a while but then made excuses to put off coming back, after 3 months of waiting with patchy contact he just cut all ties, despite e-mailing him and recording my efforts he refused all contact he got back in touch when my son was 5 m and hung around spongeing off me and messing with my head I asked him to leave he didn't show up for my little ones birthday when he said he would and we've had no contact for over 18 months. Due to small town talk Facebook and a news paper arctical I found out 6weeks after I'd asked him to leave he'd moved in with a woman and her 3 children they got married 6 months ago I applied for child support and have received £12.50 in total! This is the only contact I have made with him ( ido have a rocky relationship with his family)
so I'm out shopping with my dad and son and my son goes to look at some books, I look up to see my son stood next to his dad and his wife!!! He chose to ignor us all and we did the same... Has anyone experience this kind of situation or any advice??