Amanda - posted on 07/09/2009 ( 6 moms have responded )
I'm 8 months pregnant with a little girl. I already have a beautiful little boy who just turned two in April. My son's dad and my little girl's dad are not the same. My son's dad is not involved at all which is totally fine with me. The baby I'm pregnant with right now has a dad who wants to be a part of her life but he is 18 and I'm 24. We have been together on and off for 9 months. He doesn't have a job, doesn't ever spend any time with me, constantly emotionally abuses me (puts me down, calls me names, yells at me, screams at me, blames me for everything...), and he also puts down my son. He calls my son names and says that he is spoiled and said that because of my son and him being spoiled, that will end everything between me and him. He also said that he wants to raise these two kids with me but my son needs to be put in his place. He was so cruel to my son and so mean and he just said these things but several hours later he apologizes and says he is so so sorry for being that way and saying those things, he just gets so angry.
Any ideas on what to do? Honestly, I think it should be an easy answer. Just leave the jerk! My son deserves so much better and I KNOW that but I'm struggling because I'm pregnant and I want at least one of my babies daddys to be around. I'm so lost! Please..any suggestions?