Kathy - posted on 07/04/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
This is kinda weird, I saw my ex on fb with his new chick. He seemed very happy. We have been separated for 2 years and divorced for 5 months. I guess it's safe to say that some where in the back of my mind I thought we would one day get back together and be a family for our 2.5 year old son... I also knew that by now he for sure would be dating but nothing too serious, but guess its serious now a days when you post a pic on your default on fb, right? Anyways.... I use to think to myself that if I ever saw him with someone else I would lose it! But I didn't.... Yes it made me think, and maybe just a lil bummed out... But it definitely made me realize there's no going back. I sat in my room and cried- I felt a sense of lost- almost like I was grieving for him because it hurt- I missed what he had but knew it will never come back it will never be the same and he was gone and all I thought about was the memories we shared.... I wasn't thinking of the future or wished him harm ... I think this is a good sign that finally after 2 years I am moving on.