Kristina - posted on 07/14/2010 ( 17 moms have responded )
My future ex-husband and I have been split apart for three months and were just recently thinking about working things out. Before we could have our first date I found out that him and my younger sister have been talking with eachother and he has been over to her house twice. They both keep all of this secret, and I only stumbled across it by accident. I couldn't believe why they would be doing that and asked my ex why he would do that. He said only to say hi, he can't see his baby girl but he could make time to go over to my sisters house. They both think that I am flipping out and this isn't a big deal. They are both very defensive on the subject which makes me very concerned especially since they have been keeping this a secret for three months.
Please tell me what you ladies think? I am right in not asking them questions! I can't just find out and not ask they why, and to just drop it. Even if it was just to spy or whatever, it should never of been kept from me from my sister especially who I see everyday!