SHOULD I FEEL BAD??

Darnisha - posted on 12/01/2009

You shouldnt feel bad....that is a very normal feeling cuz i felt that way when i had my other kids.....You probably feel that way because you feel your takin attention from the chld/children you have now.....But eventually that feelling will go away....

RASHAUNDA - posted on 12/01/2009

The thing that worries me the most about being pregnant again is if i have anymore complications im really not going to be able to take it if something happen to me because im having this baby its a risk and i know that but i allready have a sweet 2yr old and i dont want to miss anything about her!!!!!

Crystal - posted on 11/30/2009

just be blessed you can have more babies.

Crystal - posted on 11/30/2009

just be blessed you can have more babies.

Kristen - posted on 11/29/2009

i wan't happy at all when i found out i was going to have my 2nd, i thought i was done for sure, didn't wat anymore, but all i can tell u is it was the best thing i ever did, i see my 2 together and the bond they have, i couldn't imagin life without her now. i guess i;m saying it will be hard for a while but when their in your arms u will know it as righ. i then had my tubes tied to be sure i didn't have anymore, not for everyone but it was the right thing for me!

Valerie - posted on 11/29/2009

feelings are just that, feelings...they are not right or wrong just feelings. what is it about being pregnant again?

Tawanna - posted on 11/29/2009

Remember GOD never gives us more than we can handle. It will all work itself out in the end. Drop that zero babygirl and set your life goal on taking care of you and your children, men will come and they will go. But dont beat yourself up about it. we've all been down that "Maybe this time will be better"road. Your focus now is your health, your sanity, and your babies. Keep your head up, you're gonna been alright. I promise

Crystal - posted on 11/29/2009

It's human nature no matter wut anybody say that u will feel bad for not being happy about ur pregnancy but that does not make u a bad person are a bad mother. Just look at yr two yr old and how much u LUV her & kno she is an angel sent from god rite along with the bun in the oven!! Stress and circumstances can get the best of us sometimes but keep ur chin up & don't beat ur self up over ur uncontrollable emotions & kno wut evea u decide to do or ~R~ going through there's someone out there going thro the same thing!

Jenifer - posted on 11/28/2009

trust men come and go and aint worth it. kids are a blessing.

Jenifer - posted on 11/28/2009

easier with time. honestly one is hard by myself w/o fam help support even with her absent special dad. now im preg with a newborn on the way with a another deadbeat baby dad its hard bur if u have support its sometimes easier. just one day at a time. with moving to a new state and starting from scratch. just pray and take it one day at a tome and u need to do for u and drop him and do for ur kids

RASHAUNDA - posted on 11/28/2009

everything does happens for a reason in was just getting my life back on track going back to school ton finish out my degree and i moved back with my mother for she can help me but that cant last long both of my kids are by the same person and i dont know why i thought things was going to be different this time with him going to help me take care of them but thats where more of my stress is coming from i dont know is it going to be harder taking care of 2 or will things get easier????

Jenifer - posted on 11/28/2009

honestly everything happens for a reason

CYNTHIA - posted on 11/28/2009

no, u should not feel bad if u did not plan this one and u have other things going on rite now in ur life...

Ashlee - posted on 11/28/2009

hun dont feel bad ill hope that evrything goes well i really do ill pray for you.

Joanne - posted on 11/28/2009

i don't think u shoulf feel bad being pregnant again because all pregnancies are difrrerent just count your blessing and pray for a healthy delivery

Kristin - posted on 11/28/2009

I ama single momof two boys. They are 16 months and 2 months old. I was not happy being pregnant with my second one. I was stressed out, exhausted, and depressed. Both my son's father chooses not to be in the picture. I can understand where you are coming from, but if you choose to go through with it all I can tell you is things WILL get better. Find ways to relax and unwind. I know it's hard to connect with this pregnancy being you spend so much time, effort, and love on your daughter, it was for me and still is. But be strong and hang in there, we are all here for you to give you support. God bless you and I wish you the best of luck. :)

Jenifer - posted on 11/28/2009

well for your health - if this pregnancy is putting that at risk you have to take that into consideration.
Stress - my childs father now is stressing but i just tuned him out and did what had to do for the health of myself and baby right now. these men sometimes don't understand or chose not to but you have to do what is best yourself child and most importantly health. you need to explain that to him and try to discuss it.i raised my 15 yr old on my own with out his stress and now i have a newborn with a new fella and he stressed me out with all his antics. i cut his ass off and kept it moving. he damn sure wasn't gonnamake me lose this child and my health and sanity....

Erika - posted on 11/28/2009

If your not physically or emotionally prepared to have a 2nd child then you shuldn't. I'm not pro-abortion but i am pro-choice and no one is going to help you 24/7 so it's ultimately up to you and your significant other. If you physically shouldn't have a child and it is a risk to your health you may be putting your children at risk for not having a mother.

RASHAUNDA - posted on 11/28/2009

me and my partner are not togethere anymore hes part of the stress so im on my on with this one and the only thing my doctor really says is take it easy and the decision is up to u! but thats the hard part!

Jenifer - posted on 11/28/2009

oh ok . did you talk to your partner? you talk to your midwife. you would have to think about the options.. how far along are you? did you have any stressful things or people within your life now?
it may be a toll on you and your body. so now you do have to be careful and talk to your midwife and partner.

RASHAUNDA - posted on 11/28/2009

i have a daughter and shes only 2 and i really didnt want anymore kids because all of the problems i had with that pregnancy and i have cervical cancer so im pushing it and i cant be stressed or i will go into early labor! and i wasnt ready for this one at all cause my doctors told me if i wanted to have more kids it would take alot!

Sarah - posted on 11/28/2009

No but I would suggest you talk about this with your midwife, gp and family be open but I'm sure in time you'll feel better

Jenifer - posted on 11/28/2009

well how old is your children that you have now? did you have problems during any of your pregnancies? were you ready for this one?