J - posted on 05/30/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )
I've been in this on and off again relationship with my child's father for at least 4-5 years. mainly off. Well our child is only 14 months and we are still not in a relationship. He simply does not want meso he puts it. Well i just don't understand mixed signals. He wants to act like we are together and act like a family when we are not. He takes me out on dates and basically just acts like we are together. Well i decided to put an end to that. A couple of weeks ago we got into a physical fight and i knew then and there that what i was living in was a fantasy and so i just let it go. Now he just picks up his child and takes him in which im pleased with. Now he tries to talk to me and be friendly knowing that i dont want to be bothered. He asks me what im doing and tries to make small talk. I wonder is this small talk something else. He always said that he wants us to get along better and maybe when things fall into place we can make it work. Who knows? We don't live together and we never spend much time together especially now. Am i just holding on to a fantasy? Has anyone else been through this? Did you get back with him,if so what worked or made it work for you? Do showing him that i moved on going to help?