Amanda - posted on 06/18/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )
My ex has been in and out of my boys life now for the last 4 years. He left us 2 days after our second child was born, did not come back around until the baby was 2.5 years old (he was scared of him), and my older boy just turned 5. He stayed around for about a month then left with out saying good bye. that was 1.7 years ago, my boys are now 6.5 and 4 years old. In May he (the dad) called me and said he was coming back to the state and wanted to see the kids, I told him it was his last chance if he left again he was not going to be about to see them again, After about 4 weeks he left AGAIN, with out saying good bye to the boys, telling me he is going away for 30 day be back in 35 (whatever that means). I see on facebook he is out of the state again and back in the state he has been all the other time. Now i have 2 kids asking me about their dad. I tell them i don't know where he is at. I know my older one is hurt the most by it and i don't think I can put my boys through this again.
Do you think me saying he adandoned his kids his the right thing to do?
I don't want my boys hurt anymore!