single and wanting to date

Jessica - posted on 07/21/2011 ( 9 moms have responded )

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Hi ladies imma be 34 on tues the 26 and i feel like dang my life have been totally devoted to my kids and work and no fun and play . But really im ready to settle down, but dating for me have been real hard, SO im patiently waiting for that right person to come along if there is such a word

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Liese - posted on 02/28/2012

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i went from being free and single to pregnant and alone. i will never say i regret having my little girl, cuz i won't, but it put a big halt on my "life." now she's 5 and i have only been on 2 dates since i got pregnant with her. my life has completely filled with her and work. i have 0 social life and wouldn't even know where to begin. i just turned 37 and wish that i knew what to do just to meet people that share my interests, but my interests right now seem to revolve around spongebob and princesses!

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Brandii - posted on 02/26/2012

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If it helps any I started a blog that encourages single mom called Bridging the Gap:Single Mothers Connecting With God, the link is btg:singlemothersconnectingwithgod@blogspot.com.

Brandii - posted on 02/26/2012

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There is such a word. I truly believe that God is using this time for you to become comfortable in your singleness. This is your season to discover who you are according to how He feels about you.He wants to prepare you for your help meet in his way and at his pace. God wants to show you love like you have never known it before so that when it comes you eill know what it looks like. Don't concentrate so much on dating, but what God wants to do in your life and when that time comes you will know because God will have prepared you for it. Begin to establish a close relationship with God so that he can speak to you. The Bible says that "When a man finds a wife, he finds a good thing. Be patient and concentrate on your relationship with God and all things will

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Carol - posted on 08/22/2011

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I totally understand. I have been in mommy mode for so long I really forgot how to go out meet people and have fun. I met this nice looking guy in the grocery store and he was trying to carry on a conversation with me but I did not realize that he was intersted in me until I got to my car. Yes you continue to wait for him to find you but remember like I tell my friends you must get out and he will find you.

Kayla - posted on 08/03/2011

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try online dating? It can be fun! and effective if you take it seriously. Goodluck!

Jaime - posted on 08/03/2011

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I don't know that I agree with the MR right that everyone always talks about. I think its more like this- I accept myself for who I am, and I need to completely accept my other half to be happy. Focusing on all the negative about my other half will only bring negativity. So be positive in everything you do, accept yourself, and have fun, don't wait around, do some research on where to meet nice SINGLE(LOL) men. Then go out once and a while. Just don't get sucked in if one of those fellows is not working for yah, move on. No point staying where your not happy. Good Luck, and God bless.

Christina - posted on 07/31/2011

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I started dating everyone. I didn't care. I figured if I couldn't find Mr Right, I would find Mr Right Now to play with until then. It was so great. I had a lot of fun. And while playing and having fun, I accidently met my now husband. I was complaining about a guy I was dating to a friend and told her the loser didn't get the clue that I wanted to end things. So I told her I was gonna have a one night stand to make him end it with me! 18mnths later, we have an amazing life, have been married for 3mnths, and are raising our five kids together.

Jennifer - posted on 07/30/2011

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i know how you feel i may only be 24 going on 25 but i have been fully devoted to my almost 3 year old since she was born... i work 4 jobs and dont have a social life because i feel wrong that im going out to kick back a little when i could be spending that time with my dear daughter... i finally might have found someone but the problem is i dont want to spend to much time witht this person becasue it takes awway from being with my daughter and i dont want to bring her around because i dont want to her to get attached and then things not to work out... sorry i dont think this helkped you much..

Quita - posted on 07/21/2011

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Oh honey, I'm with you. i'm 29 and I'm in the same boat. I just met this guy that I am really interested in. God will brng the right man to you and he will only be right for you. Keep us posted with this one I hope it works our for you.

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